StarryEyes86 Posted December 23, 2010 Posted December 23, 2010 This is just a vent... So...about a month and a half ago, I met this guy on POF and we talked via text for a few weeks. He was actually one of the first guys I really made a connection with from an online site and we seemed to really click. He is an airline pilot so our schedules conflicted for a bit before he finally asked me out. So we went out for sushi on our date and then hung out at the beach at night and he told me he wanted to see me again. He mentioned that he had a lot of flights the next day after our date. We parted ways and then next day I sent him a friendly text wishing him a good and safe day of travel. I didn't hear from him for a couple days so I waited a few more and then I decided to send one last one just saying hi. He actually responded and told me that he got a job promotion to fly bigger planes, so he would be gone for six weeks and he was getting relocated to another state for his new assignment after. Bummer. But then we decided to meet up and just have fun and maybe mess around a bit. Which we did (no sex just fooling around in the car, which was fun). Then he said that he wanted to see me one more time and we made plans for a date. He also told me he probably wouldn't be moving immediately after training so he could be coming back for a while afterwards. He gave me a goodnight kiss and we parted ways. I didn't hear from him the day of so I called just to see if we were still on. Then he texted me and told me he had to meet his captain to study some material and couldn't meet up. I wished him luck on his future endeavors and he told me he'd keep in touch. I didn't respond. I also noticed he deleted his POF profile right on the week he started training. I'm considering this a loss, of course. I probably texted him too many times. I'm more of just frustrated with myself that I can't stop thinking about him and I'm normally not like that. I'm usually pretty good at not getting in too deep with any guy and keeping my walls up. We only talked via text for a while and went out twice...so I don't know what my girly emotions are doing to me. A part of me wants to try to keep in touch with him and then the more rational side of me is telling me to just leave it be and let him text me. He's at flight school right now for another 3 1/2 weeks. He was actually the closest thing I ever got to the type of guy I would ever want a real relationship with, and I think maybe I'm just more frustrated and regretful of my actions and the whole situation and I guess a part of me hopes that maybe a second chance would be possible. I guess I need to keep myself busy and if something is supposed to happen between us, it will happen in its time I suppose. I just wish I could get him off my mind and forget about him. Any advice?
january2010 Posted January 4, 2011 Posted January 4, 2011 It looks like you've been on dates with other guys since this thread was posted. Hope everything has been resolved.
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