dont-be-naive Posted December 22, 2010 Posted December 22, 2010 "we are all just human". As if that should make one bit of difference in how someone should deal with a cheater.
TaraMaiden Posted December 22, 2010 Posted December 22, 2010 "To be Human should be considered a privilege, not an excuse". Estelle Kalbfus.
Spark1111 Posted December 22, 2010 Posted December 22, 2010 "To be Human should be considered a privilege, not an excuse". Estelle Kalbfus. Love It! :laugh::laugh::laugh:
Spark1111 Posted December 22, 2010 Posted December 22, 2010 "we are all just human". As if that should make one bit of difference in how someone should deal with a cheater. or a murderer, a theif, an unrepentent abuser........ If we make mistakes, and LEARN from them. Learn to not repeat them...I'll forgive you. If we make mistakes over and over and over again....and then say, I'm only human... well, that sounds like justification to me.
gisellefromhell Posted December 23, 2010 Posted December 23, 2010 "Well I'm human too, and I didn't cheat on you, dumbass."
kaysun Posted December 23, 2010 Posted December 23, 2010 Here's another: "I can't take it back." I heard that phrase more than I heard, "I'm sorry."
Spark1111 Posted December 23, 2010 Posted December 23, 2010 How about, I'm learning and growing. Or, he without sin should cast the first stone. Or, if your marriage wasn't miserable, he/she wouldhave never strayed
Distant78 Posted December 23, 2010 Posted December 23, 2010 Or "My affair was natural." Well then me divorcing your lying azz is natural also.
Distant78 Posted December 23, 2010 Posted December 23, 2010 Here's another: "I can't take it back." I heard that phrase more than I heard, "I'm sorry." :lmao: Wow.
Distant78 Posted December 23, 2010 Posted December 23, 2010 What about "It was only an emotional affair." And "It was only one time!" LOL!!!
TaraMaiden Posted December 23, 2010 Posted December 23, 2010 "We couldn't help it, it just happened".... ....Right, sure.....
wicar1 Posted December 23, 2010 Posted December 23, 2010 "we dont know how it happened, but it just happened" "it started as friendship" "It brought back the teen in me" yaa...f*** that
kaysun Posted December 23, 2010 Posted December 23, 2010 "I never meant to hurt you". You didn't hurt just me, but another spouse, 4 young kids, along with other family and friends. "It was like it was another person doing those things". Well where is that person as I'd like to talk to them. Is this the same person that drove your vehicle to another state to have sex with him? It seems funny that person would drive hours away but I couldn't get you to walk across our living room to have sex with me. "I'm a good, honest, caring person. I just made some bad choices. It doesn't define who I am". ???????
HalfAlive22 Posted December 23, 2010 Posted December 23, 2010 How could we forget the classic line..."it's only made me realize how much I really love you"!
bentnotbroken Posted December 24, 2010 Posted December 24, 2010 I do love you but I am not in love with you.
Woggle Posted December 24, 2010 Posted December 24, 2010 Yet when the betrayed spouse acts like anything other than a saint they are not allowed to be human.
wheelwright Posted December 24, 2010 Posted December 24, 2010 "we are all just human". As if that should make one bit of difference in how someone should deal with a cheater. I spent some time thinking about democracy once I realised most people believe in the death penalty. I think that most people are so caught up in their own world of judgement and lynch mob mentality that as a whole, as a race, we will not find justice that way. But I may be wrong - there is the press and the way it skews things that we contend with too. And the fact that we know that's going on.
Distant78 Posted December 24, 2010 Posted December 24, 2010 This has nothing to do with mob lynching, killing, or death penalty. Trying to compare cheating with outside issues is nothing but an attempt to downplay you did was wrong. You cheaters act like you guys aren't supposed to have consequences for your actions and us BSs are crazy if we judge you for willingly crossing that line over into the infidelity zone, not having remorse about it, and still daydream about the person you had an affair with at night, as your BS sleeps next to you in the bed, thinking you still love them with romantic feelings. Now that's crazy.
PerpetualMotion Posted December 25, 2010 Posted December 25, 2010 I spent some time thinking about democracy once I realised most people believe in the death penalty. I think that most people are so caught up in their own world of judgement and lynch mob mentality that as a whole, as a race, we will not find justice that way. But I may be wrong - there is the press and the way it skews things that we contend with too. And the fact that we know that's going on. IMO, there's nothing wrong with judging others. I do it all the time. I can't complain when others judge me though. The problem is that while people are busy judging others, they get pissed when they are the ones being judge. Death penalty is a whole different matter.
Author dont-be-naive Posted December 27, 2010 Author Posted December 27, 2010 "Well I'm human too, and I didn't cheat on you, dumbass." LOL, while funny, this rings true. I didn't cheat in my marriage even though I wasn't getting every one of my little needs met.
Author dont-be-naive Posted December 27, 2010 Author Posted December 27, 2010 How could we forget the classic line..."it's only made me realize how much I really love you"! in which the BS response to that should be, "really? ok, you stay home with the kids tonight while I go out and find someone to orgasm with tonight and see if I get the same epiphany!! I'll call you around 4am"
Author dont-be-naive Posted December 27, 2010 Author Posted December 27, 2010 IMO, there's nothing wrong with judging others. oh don't get me started on the "don't judge" thing. everyone has the right to judge. its just if someone that does the judging is just as bad as the person they are judging, they look rather stupid. So not only do I think judgement of cheaters and those who sleep with others' spouses is warranted, it is fine by those that aren't like them and never will be.
UnsureinSeattle Posted December 27, 2010 Posted December 27, 2010 "We can't help who we fall in love with."
TaraMaiden Posted December 27, 2010 Posted December 27, 2010 Oh has anyone mentioned the classic - "I love you but I'm not IN love with you..."..??
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