guitar23 Posted December 22, 2010 Posted December 22, 2010 Out of the blue this girl from HS that I haven't spoken to in years contacted me. We began catching up here and there online. Soon exchanged numbers and began discussing plans for the holidays (she initiated this). Over the past couple of weeks the texting got more involved, with a couple of nights going back and forth well past midnight. A few phone calls here and there. First time hanging out was the other night, we went to a party. I was paying attention to body language a lot, and she was definitely "mirroring" what I was doing most of the night. Also she kept in close proximity most of the evening. We had the most fun after the party just talking and she even suggested grabbing a bite, which prolonged the "date" a bit longer. I've been on enough first dates to know when it goes well, and this one went really well. Really had good conversation, lots of laughing, she slapped my arm a couple of times (supposed sign of attraction?). She's a REALLY good/conservative girl and we'd just eaten so no kiss at the end, but there was definitely a lot of chemistry/energy there. Anyway, we're supposed to hang out again in the next few days. The weird thing is, I've been texting like normal and she responds right away, but doesn't really seem to want to go back and forth like before. We've got several days to do something again so I don't want to overwhelm her. I was hoping to keep some light contact by texting and call in a few days to set up the next outing. Her behavior just has me really confused because I know for a fact that things went well the other night. She was smiling and laughing and wanting to hang out. Any idea what might be going on?
sammyd Posted December 22, 2010 Posted December 22, 2010 Maybe she's just a bit busy with Christmas and such. At least she is replying to your texts. Have you actually asked her out again outright when she is available? Maybe you should, and then you'll know for sure:)
Author guitar23 Posted December 22, 2010 Author Posted December 22, 2010 Thanks for the logical reasoning! It's just that she was complaining about not having anything to do while in town for the holiday, so I assumed she wouldn't really be too busy to text. Maybe she's expecting a phone call already?
Author guitar23 Posted December 23, 2010 Author Posted December 23, 2010 Sorry to bump my own thread..After re-reading OP, I overtalked my whole point. And I'm driving myself crazy asking the same questions. NEW question, same situation: Why would a girl who was initiating contact, being open, and very talkative become short and hard to get a hold of right after a very energetic, flirty and fun night out? (keep in mind I know she's not busy b/c she's mentioned how boring her break would be)
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