Heatemyheart89 Posted December 22, 2010 Posted December 22, 2010 I've been with my bf for 6 months it's been really good apart from the last few weeks where he hasn't been as nice to be /happy to be around me.I confronted him and he said it's because he is being sent to afghanistan march next year (he's in the army)This was a big shock as we thought that he wouldn't get sent as his job was meant to be based in the u.k.Anyway he's now saying he doesn't know what he wants.He didn't seem that happy when I said I said I would stand by him.he's saying he wants time alone etc as I basically want too much from him.He's now deciding what he wants.However I just can't bare it I think we want different things so i'm tempted to end it myself.I Want someone who wants me as much as I want them.Don't know what to do!Help!
9Lives Posted December 22, 2010 Posted December 22, 2010 MY experience with a man saying he dont know what he wants was always bad. Him going to another country may be bothering him but that dont mean he has to break up with you. If it was me, I wouldnt wait around. I would let him go. It is hard but this kind of thing is not fair to you. Being patient can backfire.
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