jetset22 Posted December 22, 2010 Posted December 22, 2010 This girl broke up with me a year ago over something a friend had told her which she later admitted wasn't true. I saw her a month ago and she has been texting and calling me ever since. The problem is a week or two after we broke up she put pics of her and her "guy friend" on the internet and said they were in a relationship and calls him "daddy" among other things. She says he's just her best friend. Is he really only her best friend? And do I start to spend time with her? Thanks
USMCHokie Posted December 22, 2010 Posted December 22, 2010 Wait...is this "daddy" of hers still in her life now...?
Author jetset22 Posted December 22, 2010 Author Posted December 22, 2010 Yeah. Supposedly they are just best friends. They still hang out a lot, take a lot of pictures together, and she is always saying how she loves him and what not. Also, thanks for the reply.
Author jetset22 Posted December 22, 2010 Author Posted December 22, 2010 Yeah, sadly I do. We get a long really well and make each other laugh a lot. However, she is pretty promiscuous which is something I don't really like. But I do have to admit I would like to spend time with her.
USMCHokie Posted December 22, 2010 Posted December 22, 2010 Yeah, sadly I do. We get a long really well and make each other laugh a lot. However, she is pretty promiscuous which is something I don't really like. But I do have to admit I would like to spend time with her. If there is something so fundamental about her that you don't like, then why bring back this zombie relationship? One of two things will happen: (1) She's just looking for attention that she knows she'll get from you. After she's had her fill of you longing after her again, without actually getting you, she'll disappear off the face of the planet with "daddy," and you'll be left confused and wondering what the hell happened. (2) Somehow she actually wants to work things out and be in a relationship with you. Unfortunately, you'll be unhappy because she has qualities you don't like (promiscuity) and "daddy" will always be hanging around. Both situations are a tremendous FAIL. Perma-LAUNCH.
Author jetset22 Posted December 22, 2010 Author Posted December 22, 2010 Very true. Thanks. I will do my best to forget about her again and move on. Great advice.
january2010 Posted December 22, 2010 Posted December 22, 2010 "Once chance. One woman. One lifetime." Someone wrote that on this forum, I seem to recall.
MJ2 Posted December 22, 2010 Posted December 22, 2010 I wouldn't trust her intentions. Highly unlikely they r "just friends".
Author jetset22 Posted December 22, 2010 Author Posted December 22, 2010 Good quote. I'll be sure to remember it. thanks!
Author jetset22 Posted December 22, 2010 Author Posted December 22, 2010 Agreed. I guess sometimes it is hard for me to admit things like that to myself. Thanks.
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