Nobodyn0se Posted December 22, 2010 Posted December 22, 2010 (edited) Well exlusive dating/boyfriend and girlfriend... I said I wanted to start an exclusive relationship. I said it in a weird way because I was nervous. She was silent afterwords and said she needed time to think things over. Things were awkward afterwords. This is perfectly normal I know.. but is the stone silence afterwards something that should be worrying about? She seemed to be at a loss for words. I'm very nervous right now and am on edge... what does this mean? I feel so afraid especially since she's seeing other people. Edited December 22, 2010 by Nobodyn0se
Author Nobodyn0se Posted December 22, 2010 Author Posted December 22, 2010 Did I do something horribly wrong?
january2010 Posted December 22, 2010 Posted December 22, 2010 Don't know. Give her time to come back to you. I suspect that pressuring her for an answer is not going to work in your favour. In the meantime, try to take your mind off it and focus on something else, e.g., work/school/friends.
Author Nobodyn0se Posted December 22, 2010 Author Posted December 22, 2010 (edited) Don't know. Give her time to come back to you. I suspect that pressuring her for an answer is not going to work in your favour. In the meantime, try to take your mind off it and focus on something else, e.g., work/school/friends. I didn't pressure her I said she can take as long as she wants to answer. She can think it over as long as she likes I was saying. Or maybe it came off that way? What is the best damage control here.... Edited December 22, 2010 by Nobodyn0se
january2010 Posted December 22, 2010 Posted December 22, 2010 You said to her that she could take as long as she wanted, so the best damage control is to wait it out. Making the first move too early is likely to look like you're pressuring her.
Author Nobodyn0se Posted December 22, 2010 Author Posted December 22, 2010 You said to her that she could take as long as she wanted, so the best damage control is to wait it out. Making the first move too early is likely to look like you're pressuring her. I plan to wait it out.. I'm worried that this will kill a relationship that was going very good. I think I might have dug my own grave... especially since she has so many other options.
january2010 Posted December 22, 2010 Posted December 22, 2010 You did what you felt was right. If she's not on the same page as you then you have to just take that and move on. No point beating yourself up about it. Especially since she's not even come back to you yet.
Author Nobodyn0se Posted December 22, 2010 Author Posted December 22, 2010 You did what you felt was right. If she's not on the same page as you then you have to just take that and move on. No point beating yourself up about it. Especially since she's not even come back to you yet. She did say she wants to have the conversation again... I'm just angry because I've never had this kind of chemistry with another woman before.
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