NeNinja Posted December 22, 2010 Posted December 22, 2010 I was finishing up my Christmas shopping tonight (and returning her gift) and I was honestly having a really hard time keeping my mind of her and staying with NC. Then it hit me: If space is what I need to improve myself and my life, if space is what she needs to improv herself and her life, then that's ok. The more space we get the better we will be individually and maybe, eventually, together again. I don't need to get better overnight. This doesn't need to be fixed tomorrow or the next day. This doesn't need to be fixed by Christmas or New Years. There is no rush. Anyone else ever have something just hit them out of the blue like this? I'm writing it down hoping it will help someone else...and so that I can come back to it when I'm not doing as well as I am right now.
LoveBug1989 Posted December 22, 2010 Posted December 22, 2010 Sometimes i have those moments too....but the usually don't last that long.
january2010 Posted December 22, 2010 Posted December 22, 2010 It's good that you're thinking positively and remaining upbeat. I do get epiphanies but not in the context of second chances. They are about me and my exes, but not in terms of getting back together.
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