Should I be suspicious of him? Or Am I just insecure? I have been dating my current b

[HereIAm30]

I have been dating my current boyfriend for a little over two months. From the beginning he has treated me well. He gave me a key to his apartment, took me to his work Christmas Party and introduced me to his friends. He spent Thanksgiving with me and my family/siblings, the same expected for Christmas. And than we have plans to go away for the New Years weekend. So I shouldn't have a weird feeling about things but now I do.

 

Last weekend we did have an argument and thought we resolved it. I normally hear from him every night. Than this afternoon he textes me that he has to take a client to dinner. I thought it was a little weird he would text me to tell me that, seemed kind of random. So I texted him back saying "ok and? Does this mean you won't be calling me later?" he responds back "yes" and thats it. I than feel my insecurity taking over. It just seems kind of strange that he can't call me because of that..

 

I didn't question him or anything, just said "sounds like a late night but have a good time" He didn't respond back to me and hasn't since.

 

He is an engineer and does meet with alot of clients/customers. But from what I know these "dinners" don't last all night. He could always call me after. Should I be s I have been dating my current boyfriend for a little over two months. From the beginning he has treated me well. He gave me a key to his apartment, took me to his work Christmas Party and introduced me to his friends. He spent Thanksgiving with me and my family/siblings, the same expected for Christmas. And than we have plans to go away for the New Years weekend. So I shouldn't have a weird feeling about things but now I do.

 

Last weekend we did have an argument and thought we resolved it. I normally hear from him every night. Than this afternoon he textes me that he has to take a client to dinner. I thought it was a little weird he would text me to tell me that, seemed kind of random. So I texted him back saying "ok and? Does this mean you won't be calling me later?" he responds back "yes" and thats it. I than feel my insecurity taking over. It just seems kind of strange that he can't call me because of that..

 

I didn't question him or anything, just said "sounds like a late night but have a good time" He didn't respond back to me and hasn't since.

 

He is an engineer and does meet with alot of clients/customers. But from what I know these "dinners" don't last all night. He could always call me after. Should I be suspicious?

[january2010]

One argument and one break in the contact schedule aren't necessarily red flags. If this develops into a pattern, then perhaps you need to query it with him. But otherwise, I'd just let it go for now.

[Kendrick]

"He didn't respond back to me and hasn't since."

 

The argument was LAST weekend, you posted this yesterday, so you have not heard one word from him at all since all of this took place? If so, that is whats so odd to me right now.

[Kinder-Horror]

Take a cue from "He's Just Not That into You." (not that the movie/book is an end-all guide to dating)

Unless his dinner date was in the amazon, or until 11pm... you guys were close enough that he could have called you after... there is no reason not to- and even if there was, WHY hasn't he called since?!

What was the argument about? Was it something stupid or something big? Maybe he realized that you two aren't right for one another and though you resolved it, he resolved to stop seeing you.