melodramatic Posted December 22, 2010 Posted December 22, 2010 Ever since. I'm well known as the shy type and very boring type of person, I think no one likes me. I don't have confidence especially when there are gatherings I'm always turning it down because I think they will just ignore me. Just last Sunday I'm invited to a birthday my cousins are there and they are also same age as me but look at them now they are successful unlike me, by the way I'm a Graduate of Nursing but my current work is not related into it while my cousins are very happy. Then the birthday came! I wore my old dress which is not fitted to me anymore because I gain weight & I put a little make up to be presentable. When I came there, all of them look fab, me I'm just in the corner watching them. Then my gay cousin approach me and told me I'm the one who should be assigned in the opening prayer since I've got problem in my confidence I failed all of them were staring at me like I've done the biggest mistake of my life I'm so humiliated . That is why I'm always attached to my Boyfriend because he understands me and he's the one who's always on my side, only him. All I want is changes but how?? I can't help myself This coming Christmas is our reunion on my father side and my nerves is starting to come, pls give me some advice...
january2010 Posted December 22, 2010 Posted December 22, 2010 There is no need to put yourself down. Everyone has something to offer. It is a shame that we cannot choose our families. Sometimes, you just have to limit your contact with toxic people. Be gracious, smile at their criticisms and just walk away.
jean-luc sisko Posted December 22, 2010 Posted December 22, 2010 Nobody is lame. You need more confidence, and this comes from self-acceptance and pride.
creighton0123 Posted December 22, 2010 Posted December 22, 2010 Happiness is subjective. A job, looking fabulous, new clothes, etc, can never truly make people happier. "Then my gay cousin approach me and told me I'm the one who should be assigned in the opening prayer since I've got problem in my confidence I failed all of them were staring at me like I've done the biggest mistake of my life" I'll slap him in the face. Never change yourself. Recognize that despite new clothes, make up, and the best job, you are worthy and beautiful and fierce. Screw them. Do what makes you happy and don't compromise that for anyone.
Author melodramatic Posted December 22, 2010 Author Posted December 22, 2010 You guys are great I'll do what you told me on Sat. and be myself wish me luck!!!! and I hope soon I'll be a nurse Thanks so much
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