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been dating a girl for a while but were still not official

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ok hello everyone, ive been dating this girl for 2 and half months now and everything is going really good. we talk every day on the phone and see each other at least once a week, probably will be more once i get my car legal and everything. we show each other a lot of affection and on our last date you would swear we were madly in love, we couldnt stay out of each others gaze and the whole evening was really good and we showed each other alot of affection, which we usually do.

 

 

it feels like we are already a couple because we have done everything that couples do we have even spent the night 2gether a few times the only thing we havent done was have sex. ive told her that i wanted to be with her as well. she says she wants to get to know me better first, but that was a month and half ago.

 

 

i dont believe she is leading me on or talking to other people because she is a very blunt and honest person. i just dont quite get y she isnt ready to commit yet even tho she seems to be really into me. o and in case your wondering we met online. but i did make 1 mistake with her in the begining.

 

before we met i was playing the field talking to and meeting different girls and i met this 1 girl and i wanted to see where things would go with us and i told the current girl im dating about it and she was very upset when i told her.

 

well things didnt go well with me and the other girl so i started talking to her again and she gave me another chance so im thinking that could have something to do with it as well.

 

so any advice would be greatly appreciated.

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Ask her what she thinks about dating exclusively.

 

Regarding sex, talk to her again. She may prefer to wait longer. If you're not happy to wait any longer, then it may be a dealbreaker for you.

 

I'm not quite sure what you mean when you refer to commitment. If you mean a serious relationship that may lead to marriage then I think it may be too early to have that discussion. Though again, if it's a dealbreaker for you because you don't want to date casually and have flings, then you may wish to bring it up anyway to make sure that she's on the same page.

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