poorguy Posted December 21, 2010 Posted December 21, 2010 I'm wondering if I can have other people opinions as to when it ends and what happens then in their experience. I've been dating a girl for 3 or 4 months now and naturally it was incredible when it began but now she's kind of mean and bitchy-or at least is showing that side. It's actually pissing me off. We moved along together pretty quickly and were inseparable (which I know isn't good) and spent almost every night together. So what now??? What's happeneed with everyone else when the honeymoon ended or began to and how long did it take??? Continue or move on??? Red flags??? Thank you for sharing!!
yah Posted December 21, 2010 Posted December 21, 2010 Now you get to know her. I can't pinpoint exactly when it ended in my R, but if I had to guess, maybe around 8-10 months? Our personalities didn't change (it is hard to keep up a fake one, perhaps you just didn't pick up on it earlier?) but we confided more in each other and became more comfortable. I think its natural that you'll feel a small dip in the R after the honeymoon phase but, if you can and want to work through it, that's when the R becomes a more fulfilling R.
Loquacious Miss L. Posted December 22, 2010 Posted December 22, 2010 I've been with my dude for about three months and we reached a snag around that mark. I think it's about the time when you start seeing their true colors and questioning whether or not the person is right for you to continue the relationship with. Stay and see whether the pros outweigh the cons.
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