rrobbie Posted December 21, 2010 Posted December 21, 2010 i got close to a female friend who got really depressed i help her and fell for her we were getting on well and then she said im not her type we tried to stay as friends as before we got close but i still want her wich causes drama as i cant accept that she doesnt want me few week later she wanted me to take her out for drinks she says "i might meet the man of my dreams" i said angryliy i cant do this no wonder your ex b4 me left you but i still want her i know she cheated on last bf she told me she had to cheat to find out her true feelings i fell in love i help her see life was worth living sat by her side in a hospital after she attemted sucide. i hope she know how much i went through for her i wish we could be friends and never got romantic her best friend told me that she has had many guys and cant help her self why cant she be happy with one person that actually cares about her ive seen her out and pick up guys when we were just friends and i just roll my eyes. but she came onto me i fell for her and now i hurt i dont know if it from being in love or her using our friendship im so obsessed by her i cant see any logic anymore why do some girl have no morals she plays the sweet and inocent type and says how wrong it is when she hears about others cheating but she the biggest of them all from what ive been told her past is her past and i dont want to belive it i see the good in her and want her to want me back
CandyHeart Posted December 21, 2010 Posted December 21, 2010 Quit contact with her, let yourself heal. It looks like you are unable to be friends with her so why try?
oczplayer Posted December 22, 2010 Posted December 22, 2010 In my opinion, YOU are making one of the most classic MISTAKES a guy can make when it comes to women. I like to call it the "But She's Different" philosophy! It goes something like this... A guy will meet a woman, and think "SHE'S THE ONE"! NOW let's get something clear... The "But She's Different" theory is complete BULL****! I'm not going to sugar-coat things here. While you might think this girl is *different* from others, she's actually the same! Don't get confused by those warm, fuzzy feelings you feel around this girl. Realize that she's JUST like ALL other women! You can succeed with ANY girl if you know ONE thing: How to connect to her emotions! A beautiful, successful, intelligent woman can be easily had as the ugliest, surliest, overweight girl. As long as you're connecting to her emotions, it's JUST as easy to create sexual attraction. So how do you connect to these emotions? Well, it's easy! If you know the RIGHT way to flirt, it becomes easy to make that connection. My advice is incredibly SIMPLE... Treat this girl like you would anyone else. Tease her, create sexual tension, and give off that fun vibe that women want from a guy. In other words, don't get caught up in the thought process where you think she's different. If you can make my stuff work with other girls, then you can make it work with her! Good luck!
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