"accidentally" bumping into your ex

[andrew23]

You know how girls believe in destiny and fate? How about "accidentally" bumping into your ex? Or creating coincidences? Obviously one needs to be pretty clever and cool about it, since one doesn't want to come across as a stalker or anything.. just a fate manipulator.

Any ideas or experiences?

[andrew23]

p.s. Obviously NC is the way to go. But this might create something when NC just aint working

[bl22]

if you force it, your ex will see throughthis, and youll do so much damage to yourself. What if she just ignores you, how will you feel then?

 

better to stay away, dont try to accidently bump into her, 9/10 you will leave feeling worse im guessing.

[andrew23]

This would only be after a lengthy healing period- obviously when your feeling good about yourself and ready to take on the world.

Would never do this in a desperate needy state.

My thoughts were just to ignite something when the NC period has taken its toll and nothing is happening - sooner or later you have nothing to loose..

[bl22]

if its after a lenghty healing period you stil risk damaging yourself doing this. And if you are completely over it, you wouldnt waste your time anyway. I know this kind of thing happens in films all the time but its not something to think about right now, just worry about yourself for now

[PegNosePete]

p.s. Obviously NC is the way to go. But this might create something when NC just aint working

"Ain't working"? Ain't working for what?

 

NC is not a clever trick to get your ex back. It's a process to help you feel better and get over the break-up.

[GreenPolicy]

They don't come back because of NC. They come back because of a change of heart. NC is about healing and moving on, but it does have the side benefit of preventing you from sabotaging a relationship that still has hope. It's in their hands whether they want you back.