miss_cupcake Posted December 21, 2010 Posted December 21, 2010 Hi everyone, It's been 2 weeks since I last spoke to the guy I like (who refered to me as his girlfriend when we were out). As we got to know each other we got closer - he would try to kiss me, we'd cuddle etc. He is extremely busy as he is an international student so he's either studying, working, or playing soccer! Last time he didn't contact me for 2 weeks he thought I'd forgotten about him but rather I was waiting for him to make a move since I am the one who mostly initiates the contact. The other night his closest friend here in my country started talking to me on Facebook but unfortunately it was too late and I had to go. Does the fact that his friend is talking to me mean that he could still be interested? I really do want to contact him at Christmas to show I care but I don't want to come across as too desperate. Do you think it'd be a good idea to say something like "Even if we aren't going to see each other again I feel lucky to have met you etc?" Because I'm not sure whether he is just lazy and can't be bothered to pick up the phone or whether he is actually not interested. I can't stop thinking about him, I miss him so much Cheers guys I appreciate your help.
Surrealist Posted December 21, 2010 Posted December 21, 2010 Hard to tell really. He could still be interested but is busy. Could have lost some interest. Could leave it or take it. I don't really see a problem with contacting him for Christmas. I wouldn't suggest you say what you stated there though, does sound a bit too mushy maybe. What about something like "Have a good Christmas and New Year. Look forward to catching up again." Something simple like that.
BackUpOrGetStung Posted December 21, 2010 Posted December 21, 2010 When you say "he would try to kiss me", do you mean that you wouldn't kiss him?
EasyHeart Posted December 21, 2010 Posted December 21, 2010 The answer to this kind of question is always "Just let it go."
DuskCrush Posted December 21, 2010 Posted December 21, 2010 Call him before Christmas and tell him happy holidays --or send an email (this is probably the best option). Then the ball is in his court.
elaina Posted December 21, 2010 Posted December 21, 2010 I really do want to contact him at Christmas to show I care but I don't want to come across as too desperate. Do you think it'd be a good idea to say something like "Even if we aren't going to see each other again I feel lucky to have met you etc?" Because I'm not sure whether he is just lazy and can't be bothered to pick up the phone or whether he is actually not interested. I can't stop thinking about him, I miss him so much Cheers guys I appreciate your help. Lucky? Lol, no. Please don't say you feel lucky, unless you truly feel lucky to have met him? Now, if he was treating you wonderfully, then yes by all means lucky, but since he doesn't contact you, how lucky is that? Just curious You could say "Merry Christmas (does he celebrate Christmas?) I'm thinking of you and hope you're doing great!" But yeah lucky seems desperate to me and slightly untrue unless he's doing more on his part to get to know you, yeah?
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