northern_sky Posted December 21, 2010 Posted December 21, 2010 Here's a vent, and more ammo for me to ditch this incestuous town. If you're itching for an ego boost, there is plenty of evidence here that I am a twisted, mentally unfit individual in need of a good lecture. So ready your whip. I figured out the girl J screwed and is now dating. At first I only knew her by facebook, but then yesterday at a cafe I looked up from my laptop and, to my surprise, there she was in the flabby, white flesh, perched a few feet away from my table. All night whenever I glanced or got up, she floated by. I almost collided with one of her orbits on my way to the bathroom. I know I shouldn't have been laughing at her inside. I know we weren't exclusive, and she's done nothing wrong. Yet I was, and I'm fine with that. Aren't people funny? It's rare for somebody to have such a distinct aura without even opening her mouth, but she stunk up the whole joint. She looked like pippy-long-stocking on an acid trip. She had two ginger braided pigtails that were coming undone, in a failed attempt to look cute/hip, granny glasses and a sh0t-eating-grin. She was hopping everywhere, clumsily, leaning over the tables of different guys. So J has crap taste. Knowing that, I feel a combo of irritation, amusement and relief. Irritation and amusement that THIS is what he values and relief that there's nothing apparent about her that could make me feel jealous. I think I'd have been a little bummed if she had been cool, pretty and likeable looking, but she was the opposite. If anything she was quite the eye opener. As my friend Spookie put it, the love of my life would not bang that chick.
OceanGirl Posted December 23, 2010 Posted December 23, 2010 FYI This girl is DISGUSTING. From the first time I saw her picture, there was an aura of something that completely repelled me about her. I am not just saying this to be nice. She seems like an uglier, flabbier, ginger version of Summer* * 500 days of summer reference
Els Posted December 23, 2010 Posted December 23, 2010 Oh, Shadow. You're SO much better than this, y'know.
sb129 Posted December 23, 2010 Posted December 23, 2010 NS, I am going to forgive you this seeing as its 2010 still, and it does feel good sometimes to be mean about exes new GFs. Also, OGs description was funny! BUT be warned.... 2010 is drawing to a close, and that young lady means that J and all talk of him should remain in 2010 where it belongs. In a couple of weeks, he will be SO last year. 2011 is a new year. Onwards and upwards!
catgotyourtongue Posted December 23, 2010 Posted December 23, 2010 Here's a vent, and more ammo for me to ditch this incestuous town. If you're itching for an ego boost, there is plenty of evidence here that I am a twisted, mentally unfit individual in need of a good lecture. So ready your whip. s my friend Spookie put it, the love of my life would not bang that chick. Hmmm not sure what to say or what you are looking for in response with this type of post. It seems pretty mean spirited and judgemental. i understand not wanting to like the other woman or women in his life, but chopping her to pieces and throwing crap in the air/online abt her seems futile. From what I know, you went back and forth with this guy (I dont know much abt it) and you knew he was not exclusive. So unless she came up to you and bashed you, emotionally, or pysically, or was a beeyyootch or did some ugly things to you, what's your beef? This is wasted energy and hating on her just shows you love, control, or issues with him, not her. Something tells me you would hate her just as much if she were nice, pretty, or whatever. Not trying to be mean but you seem not to care about others feelings. maybe she hated being one of many too. Playing the field rarely works, sharing sex with multiple people at some time, rarely works, unless of course it is part of the arrangement and really casual. once feelings get involved, someone always gets hurt. if u were as casual with j as u thought or okay sharing him, it sure does not seem that way. wish u the very very best in the New Year and u find what you are looking for, peace out and good luck. Not sure the point of the post, other than to bash someone else....???? what are you motives? I can see being upset to meet her, but thats not exactly how you vented it...but maybe it was just a vent, and i am sensitive to the criticism of others...thats all I think from what I know of your posts, you like to fight a little? Shake it up?? Sorry if I have u confused with another poster.
Mme. Chaucer Posted December 23, 2010 Posted December 23, 2010 Wow ... nobody needs a whip. You have done yourself a real disservice by indulging yourself in such a bashing post. You've presented a very ugly side of yourself.
elaina Posted December 23, 2010 Posted December 23, 2010 (edited) Wow ... nobody needs a whip. You have done yourself a real disservice by indulging yourself in such a bashing post. You've presented a very ugly side of yourself. Agreed NorthernSky, Why'd you do this? Do you want to be a mean-spirited, bitter ex? Who cares what she looks like? It's nobody's business but hers, and it is very mean and cruel of you to vomit your hatred and disgust of her on the internet! This reminds me of that movie Mean Girl If you want to vent, write something and then delete it, but don't share the venom online or with others!!! That's just cruel and poor taste. Leave her alone and get on with your life. Sb has great advice... leave both her and J in the past, and don't be so cruel to your ex love interests and their new ones man! Edited December 23, 2010 by elaina
SmileFace Posted December 23, 2010 Posted December 23, 2010 What is the point of bashing this women? This isn't going to help the fact that he is with her and not you.
Author northern_sky Posted December 23, 2010 Author Posted December 23, 2010 Oh, Shadow. You're SO much better than this, y'know. Thanks, but we all have our moments where we need to vent. None of us have pure thoughts all the time. At least I was being honest and realized it was irrational.
Author northern_sky Posted December 23, 2010 Author Posted December 23, 2010 NS, I am going to forgive you this seeing as its 2010 still, and it does feel good sometimes to be mean about exes new GFs. Also, OGs description was funny! BUT be warned.... 2010 is drawing to a close, and that young lady means that J and all talk of him should remain in 2010 where it belongs. In a couple of weeks, he will be SO last year. 2011 is a new year. Onwards and upwards! Thanks SB. Yep, I'm not going to let people make me feel bad for venting some impure thoughts to get them out of my system. A couple of years ago it might have gotten to me, but I have more of a sense of humor now. You're right -- I need to leave thoughts of J in 2010. I'm still thinking about him a fair amount, but it has gotten gradually less so every day that we haven't spoken. I have to remind myself that I have improved a lot from where I was. Three years ago at around this time I was sleeping with my then boyfriend's best friend.
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