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Duly noted... :laugh:

 

You're a sweetie to think of it, but this particular girl does not deserve it. At all. It really is her loss!

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No. And hell no.

 

no!!!!!!!!!!

 

Thanks for removing any lingering doubts... :rolleyes::laugh:

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It's now been, what, 72 hours? And no word? Why would you even think about getting her a gift? :confused:

 

I mean, if that's how you think... Where's mine?!?! :laugh:

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You're a sweetie to think of it, but this particular girl does not deserve it. At all. It really is her loss!

 

Thanks, TA... :o

 

I just wanted to believe that she was interested and that this could possibly work out...so I wanted to be prepared in case I was being too quick with the LAUNCH trigger...but it looks like it's not necessary...

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It's now been, what, 72 hours? And no word? Why would you even think about getting her a gift? :confused:

 

Touché. I don't know what I was thinking... :rolleyes:

 

I mean, if that's how you think... Where's mine?!?! :laugh:

 

I have it sitting in a box under my bed. ;)

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I have it sitting in a box under my bed. ;)

 

I hope it's a Tiffany necklace (jk ;)). I just realized that I left mine behind in my now-smushed car. Looks like I need a replacement of more than one thing... :(

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I hope it's a Tiffany necklace (jk ;)).

 

I guess that's for you to find out. ;)

 

I just realized that I left mine behind in my now-smushed car. Looks like I need a replacement of more than one thing... :(

 

:(

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I guess that's for you to find out. ;)

 

You don't even have a bed to hide it under, do you? :p

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You don't even have a bed to hide it under, do you? :p

 

Hahah, if you remember, I actually did get one...so :p

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Sigh... Where does one find guys like you? :o

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Sigh... Where does one find guys like you? :o

 

You're not seriously doing this, are you?? :confused:

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You're not seriously doing this, are you?? :confused:

 

 

No...

 

I am trying to boost his confidence a bit.

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You're not seriously doing this, are you?? :confused:

 

What the hell?

 

No...

 

I am trying to boost his confidence a bit.

 

I'm pretty sure THAT's not how you do it.

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What the hell?

 

 

 

I'm pretty sure THAT's not how you do it.

 

:lmao::lmao::lmao:! meeeow~~~!

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What the hell?

 

 

 

I'm pretty sure THAT's not how you do it.

 

 

I really do mean all those things, just not in the way SG interpreted it.

 

Can't you give someone a compliment without flirting with them?

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I really do mean all those things, just not in the way SG interpreted it.

 

Can't you give someone a compliment without flirting with them?

 

Oh lordy, that was so obvious! I'm not the only one who interpreted it that way... Between that and several other comments you've made very recently, it's pretty clear you've been flirting! :lmao:

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Oh lordy, that was so obvious! I'm not the only one who interpreted it that way... Between that and several other comments you've made very recently, it's pretty clear you've been flirting! :lmao:

 

Even if I was (and I wasn't)...is he your property now? :rolleyes::lmao:

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Even if I was (and I wasn't)...is he your property now? :rolleyes::lmao:

 

Absolutely not, and I don't have to worry about him making the right choice for himself. He's a class act. :)

 

I'm just really surprised given some things you said privately in the past that you'd even try to go there.

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Absolutely not, and I don't have to worry about him making the right choice for himself. He's a class act. :)

 

I'm just really surprised given some things you said privately in the past that you'd even try to go there.

 

 

No, I am really not trying to go there. A guy that can fall for someone with your personality is certainly not a guy for me. Take that as you will.

 

I have my eye on someone else around here actually but that shall remain a secret for now ;)

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A guy that can fall for someone with your personality is certainly not a guy for me. Take that as you will.

 

Oh, the feeling is mutual, I promise. :)

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Oh, the feeling is mutual, I promise. :)

 

I raise tami-chan a hiss and spit...yeowch. :lmao::lmao:

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I raise tami-chan a hiss and spit...yeowch. :lmao::lmao:

 

Nah. I'm a bored cat. ;)

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Oh, the feeling is mutual, I promise. :)

 

I actually believed it when you said that you liked me few threads ago :(

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There's this girl that I've been seeing for the past few weeks. We've only been on two real dates and a handful of gym "dates."

 

But in the past week or so, ever since she finished the semester and started her winter break, things have started to trail off into almost nothing. She had canceled a date for this past weekend and I've hardly heard anything from her since then. She has just been acting very ambivalent about us. She's close with her family, so I assume that she's spending a lot of time with them during the break, which is completely understandable. But at the same time, barring the holiday circumstance, everything would lead me to believe that she's not interested and is just trying to disappear.

 

So when you happen to start seeing someone around the holidays, do you tend to spend more time or less time with them? Or is it dependent on circumstances (e.g., length of time you've been dating, family involvement, prior commitments/plans, etc.)? Should I just wait this one out...?

 

IME, there's more time and attention spent than usual, regardless of the length of time we've been dating. :o

 

You two!

 

:(

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I would make one latch ditch effort, call and leave a message and that's it. If you don't hear back, then file it away. Two dates, there is not a lot of time or emotional investment by that point, though I realize it can still be a bummer.

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