HopeisallIhave Posted December 21, 2010 Posted December 21, 2010 Has anyone had luck with getting back thier ex's using the "law of attraction" or praying (to whatever God)? The law says by longing for our ex's we send signals out to the Universe that we want to be longing and it continues to manifest in our lives. I'm no hippie but I see truth to this. I think this is why NC works, the signals of longing fade as we rebuild and then we some how attract our ex's cosmically to want to come back to us (dont no any other way to put it). Or even prayer. I believe in God, Jesus so on, an have prayed hard everyday for almost 3 months. I can tell you it has done nothing. At least it feels like its done nothing. Or maybr it has even worked against me by continuing the longing. I feel there is only two hopes of getting my ex back, NC and all the rebuilding that goes with it, and/or law of attraction. I can tell you right now it is not as easy as it sounds to insigate the "law" when its not your natural gut/core emotions. Thoughts?
Capital P Posted December 21, 2010 Posted December 21, 2010 ****ing hell dude, have you actually listened to anything anyone has replied to you rather than writing all of this crap? You have spent thousands, asked for advice on here, and it doesnt seem like you are listening to anything anyone is saying Go no contact, for ****s sakes!!! Sort yourself out and stop talking about such ridiculous things as love spells. Man up!!!
Author HopeisallIhave Posted December 21, 2010 Author Posted December 21, 2010 Youre right Capital P. I have been reading replies though. But yes someone needed to slap me in the face and tell me to man the f up. THank you. I am serious.
Capital P Posted December 21, 2010 Posted December 21, 2010 Take a break dude, go away for a few days. Go hang with friends. Go tell some friends , get ir out of your system. You cant begin to heal because you are still holding on , and until you start healing she wont get back with you Take stock of your life and get a grip the best you can. You dont want to let this drag your whole life down. She is 1 person in a world of 8 billion or whatever, dont let that affect your whol outlook Yes its painful, yes you are going to feel in pain. GEt used to that and try your best to carry on and soldier through
WTRanger Posted December 21, 2010 Posted December 21, 2010 NC only works when you use it for yourself and become more confident. If your ex came back now, her loins would dry up faster than the Sahara desert. Right now, you are far too much of a hot mess to deal with her. Prayer, and most spiritual mumbo-jumbo, doesn't work unless you actually work for it. I could pray all day long for a new job, but I won't find one until I actually go looking. Stop thinking there is some Voodoo magic that will get your ex back. And if you are really that spiritual, then you know about God's plan. What if you breaking up with her is God's plan? He's not going to change his plan because you all of a sudden bought a 3-cent prayer book. It happened because it happened, and it was for the best. The Universe only works forward, never backwards.
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