HopeisallIhave Posted December 21, 2010 Posted December 21, 2010 Please read my previous post if you need to, titled "I messed up BAD!" Ok, If I decide to initiate NC which at this point seems to be my only and last hope...do I...(keeping my current circumstances in mind) 1. Drop off the face of the earth? 2. Send a short hand written letter or contact her accpting the break-up, saying its the best thing for us...(see TDUB adivce as I am sure you all have, if he is a real person that is...) NOTE: I tried NC once sent the letter, and broke it in three weeks by sending her a gift. The outcome left me more tattered than I already was. Seemed like my initing NC gave her a chance to move on QUICK. So please any advice on how the most effective way for a male to initate NC with a female? Not trying to be gender specific just asking.
USMCHokie Posted December 21, 2010 Posted December 21, 2010 So please any advice on how the most effective way for a male to initate NC with a female? Step 1: Stop talking/texting/emailing/calling/instant messaging/etc her. Step 2: There is no step 2.
NeNinja Posted December 21, 2010 Posted December 21, 2010 If you haven't talked today you've started. Day One is almost over. Keep up the good work.
Author HopeisallIhave Posted December 21, 2010 Author Posted December 21, 2010 Ok so I am assuming all of you are saying to drop off the face of the earth.
january2010 Posted December 21, 2010 Posted December 21, 2010 Yup. Don't overthink it. Just do it and stick to it.
Author HopeisallIhave Posted December 21, 2010 Author Posted December 21, 2010 Well s--t. Here I go again. NC...(I hate you!)
cerridwen Posted December 21, 2010 Posted December 21, 2010 Well s--t. Here I go again. NC...(I hate you!) By the time you're done, you'll be wanting to send NC a gift!! Hang in there.
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