mortensorchid Posted December 20, 2010 Posted December 20, 2010 Well I guess I know where I stand now. I wrote about this guy I had been seeing for the last 2 months who told me 2 weeks ago that he wanted to take a step back. If you recall, he said he isn't good during the holidays and that we was trying to get over someone from 6 months ago. Did I believe that? I wasn't sure, but I said if that was the way he felt then that was the way he felt, and if he felt he would rather not be with me anymore then I guess that's best. I went home and cried, because there are so few people out there that you really feel a connection with for whatever reason. Last weekend, I texted him asking if he wanted to go see a movie on Friday, he said yes. We met at the movies, and afterwards we had a chat for a bit. Not about "things" but I told him that I was having a Christmas dinner party on Sunday and invited him. He said he'd be there. But he wasn't. Not a word from him before or since saying he couldn't make it. I guess we aren't going to really be friendly after all. I felt stupid that I had bought him a Christmas present before (a sweater). I gave it to one of my guy friends and he was happy to take it. I'm just glad I didn't get him a really nice gift that I would be stuck with and not comfortable about giving to someone else so casually.
paleblue Posted December 20, 2010 Posted December 20, 2010 Sorry mortensorchid : ( Whatever is going on with him, that’s not cool to say yes to dinner than not show. Forget him!
samspade Posted December 20, 2010 Posted December 20, 2010 What I usually tell men in this situation is that there is no such thing as 'mixed messages.' When someone wants to spend time with you, he/she will, or at least suggest an alternative time/date if they can't make it.
Author mortensorchid Posted December 20, 2010 Author Posted December 20, 2010 I agree. I think it was very rude of him not to come to the party when he said he would. I will not bother with him anymore.
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