greengoddess Posted January 4, 2011 Posted January 4, 2011 :laugh: My head is spinning. I get back from a wonderful vacation and can't figure out who's who anymore. So many familiar names coming back and so many familiar names gone. Would someone like to pm me the who's who on loveshack. It's simple really. OW like to believe "their" married men are controlled. It makes it easier to stay in their situation. They can't help it, someone else is pulling the strings. It's not the poor man's fault he is married. It is always someone elses fault. The BS's know better because if they had that much control over the spouse then they would not be cheating. Although the spouse can not control the 9 to 5 workday aspect so...but who would ever want to be someones 9 to 5 playtoy work spouse? It's just one big circle.
donnamaybe Posted January 4, 2011 Posted January 4, 2011 Thanks for clarifying. Food for thought, not that it's right, but perhaps the cheating is the only area of life some cheaters have control over. Then they are pretty pathetic individuals, IMO. I refused to date a guy because I knew he'd be a pushover if I were that type.
donnamaybe Posted January 4, 2011 Posted January 4, 2011 or maybe some people just cheat... control issues or no control issues. there are many that simply have cheating as a blatant character defect.Right on. Some folks are just self absorbed jerks. End of story. There's no big mystery to solve - no drama or outside influence causing it.
donnamaybe Posted January 4, 2011 Posted January 4, 2011 one can't have control over another - unless the other ALLOWS another to do the controlling.Hence my post about the guy who wanted to date me and my opinion of that kind of person.
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