Roxxxy Posted December 20, 2010 Posted December 20, 2010 when your boyfriend is in your band? I've been in my band for nearly 2 years now, and it's a great project, I couldn't ask for better musicians to work with. Recently, though, we lost our guitarist, and I was in the hospital, so the other guys decided to replace him without me. They replaced him with my boyfriend, who's a wonderful guitarist, but I don't like working with him musically. The tensions that we have been having in our relationship tend to come out in the band and it's making the writing process really complicated, there are a lot of arguments, and some one is going to get kicked out. I already know my position is fragile, has been from day 1, being the only girl in the band. I just don't know how to handle all this tension.
Eddie Edirol Posted December 20, 2010 Posted December 20, 2010 Well you can talk to your bf about it, get down to the meat of your problems, so they wont come out in practice anymore... in the meantime remember these bands with members who dated: White stripes No Doubt
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