acexx Posted December 19, 2010 Posted December 19, 2010 so heres the situation been with my g/f for two months i really like this girl but we had a few mishaps two weeks ago and she now wants space for the month. I knew that this month would be hard to do anything together due to the holidays and i really have no family in this area their all in cali. So heres my question i have been going NC to give her the space she wanted is that a good idea or a bad idea? Also she called me yesterday about coming over and staying the night on tuesday night but im all nervous, i am either going to make her dinner or take her to out to her favorite restaurant which do you think would be better because i have never eaten at that place.
january2010 Posted December 19, 2010 Posted December 19, 2010 If she asks for space, it's best to give it to her. You may even suggest that it's best she doesn't stay over on Tuesday because it will confuse the issue.
Author acexx Posted December 19, 2010 Author Posted December 19, 2010 well i guess i should of been more clear sorry confuses me also because she said that while we are in the month of december things will be distant so i assumed that meant space, so i pretty much don't text call or anything until she starts to, I would ask her not to come on tues but i would like to give her my xmas gift i bought because i won't see her until tues/wed of the next week
january2010 Posted December 19, 2010 Posted December 19, 2010 Okay. Then I suggest playing it cool. Give her the gift but suggest that she doesn't stay over.
that girl Posted December 20, 2010 Posted December 20, 2010 Wait, did she say that she will be distant in December because she's busy or did she say she needs space? Those are two different things. Personally, I wouldn't tell her straight off she shouldn't spend the night- it assumes she was going to which is a problem if she's a little disinterested in you and tells her you're not interested if she was simply busy this month.
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