DellPickle Posted December 19, 2010 Posted December 19, 2010 Okay, so I've been seeing this girl (last month and a half) and we've been taking it slow. We just made it clear we are exclusive on Friday. I am going to get her a small and sweet gift for Cmas, no giant romantic statement or anything because we just started dating. I was going to surprise her by making it "anonymous", putting in a card with a note, saying its from her "Not so secret admirer" & drop it off at her apartment, but she said she is leaving tomorrow for the next week to return home for the Cmas. She'll be back a day or two after Cmas. I decided that since I know her parents address (she typed it in on my GPS, not stalking them) I would send it to her there. But then I had a realization that I dont always have the best of ideas and wondered if its a good idea. My reasoning is because while I know she likes me, I can only assume she has mentioned something to her parents about seeing someone, but since we're so new, I really have no idea. So off the chance she really hasnt mentioned much about me, should I wait and give her her gift when she returns? I most think its a good idea, but would like opinions from others! Thanks
tinktronik Posted December 19, 2010 Posted December 19, 2010 Ask your new GF if it's okay to send the gifts to her family home. Else don't send them but let her know you're holding off until she's back.
Undine Posted December 19, 2010 Posted December 19, 2010 Your idea is very cute, and I don't know what this girl would like, but I can tell you what I would prefer.Tell her you want to do a private Christmas when she gets back. Have it somewhere atmospheric if you can, lights, holiday decorations, maybe a fireplace. Exchange presents in person, and have some champagne. I know you said you weren't sure about going romantic, but IMO it's better to inject some romance into the holidays, it would impress me anyway.
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