Pryor Posted December 19, 2010 Posted December 19, 2010 Well a rocky marriage due to lack of communcation has turned into my wife leaving with the kids. She said she need a separation to think since she says she doesn't feel that love anymore. She is seeing a marriage councelor who has told her it is ok to feel that way. Her parents and sister have told her not to go back since I upset her. Every marriage has flaws and I've quickly realized many places where I was completely in the wrong. Should have listened sooner...But I didn't and now I'm stuck wondering and waiting. I love my wife and want her back. Are there any self help books that could possibly benefit me or even both of us. We have been communcating better in the last month and have had 1 argument over kids homework. But nothing compared to our arguments before which we typically were lucky to go 1 day without.
imagine Posted December 19, 2010 Posted December 19, 2010 Learn to meet each others emotional needs. You will find a list of them in the "marriage builders" site articles. Especially learn not to lovebust which is even more detrimental to her needs. These are angry outbursts, disrespectful judgments, etc (cant remember them all)
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