shocked_confused Posted December 19, 2010 Posted December 19, 2010 Hey guys! I felt the need to share my feelings because I'm just so happy! Its been about 6 weeks since our break up and 4.5 weeks of NC and it is totally working. Last night I got together with a bunch of friends and went out to the bar and I haven't felt so good in so long, including the time I was with my ex. I even chatted/flirted some guys! yayyyy. I didn't think about him once and I'm very proud of myself! Not saying I'm completely over the whole thing, but I am definitely advocating NC for the rest of you dumpees out there. NC + going out with friends = feeling a heck of a lot better! Keeeeep moving!
ussy Posted December 20, 2010 Posted December 20, 2010 Thats great! Your a fast healer lol 4.5 weeks? Took me about 4.5 months to get to where your at! Keep going x
Fern Posted December 20, 2010 Posted December 20, 2010 Thats great! Your a fast healer lol 4.5 weeks? Took me about 4.5 months to get to where your at! Keep going x Me too! Onwards and upwards!
Author shocked_confused Posted December 20, 2010 Author Posted December 20, 2010 Haha yaa, its only because he lives so far away now (he dumped me 3 weeks after moving across the country, so the he can have fun)...So I have no idea whats going on with him at all and i don't have him on facebook. Also, his hometown is about 1.5 hours away from mine, so I never run into his friends and I'm pretty sure i won't be running into him at all when he's back for Christmas. I think a combination of all this has made it easy for me to be MIA from his life. However, I'm sure if I found out he was seeing someone else, it would hurt me. But as long as he's completely out of sight, i have no way of finding out! Thats great! Your a fast healer lol 4.5 weeks? Took me about 4.5 months to get to where your at! Keep going x
J0N Posted December 20, 2010 Posted December 20, 2010 Glad to hear your making such rapid progress. I have also employed the same strategy and I am beginning to break the bond and I am beginning to feel myself letting go. She is fading into just a memory and I have kind of gotten bored with thinking about her. NC is the only way to really get over someone, but all it takes is one slip and your back at square 1. Keep it up!
Author shocked_confused Posted December 21, 2010 Author Posted December 21, 2010 Glad to hear your making such rapid progress. I have also employed the same strategy and I am beginning to break the bond and I am beginning to feel myself letting go. She is fading into just a memory and I have kind of gotten bored with thinking about her. NC is the only way to really get over someone, but all it takes is one slip and your back at square 1. Keep it up! Thanks J0N, I'm happy NC is working for you too! How has it been since your last contact? I really hope I don't slip up, I was thinking about that the other day. I don't know how I would handle being at square 1 again. But I haven't been tempted at all to text him. Just gotta ignore, ignore, ignore! Even on Christmas day.
BlindRage Posted December 21, 2010 Posted December 21, 2010 Hahah good to know. For me it seems different. I feel right now I can't have outings with friends and I much rather just watch movies and read LS. It's been working, the me time, that is. When I went out with my friends to a club I literally broke down to tears and frantically started contacting my ex(of course getting hung up on or simply ignored). ME time is working right now, I haven't had thoughts of contacting my ex as of two days(believe me this is a HUGE improvement).
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