nabo13 Posted December 19, 2010 Posted December 19, 2010 well I was in a relationship with an older woman. I made it clear to her we won't be in a serious relationship because of the age gap it is just a fwb. Then I moved away we kept the friendship just talking on the phone and texting. Then she broke it off with me over a text message because her new bf doesnt want her to talk to ex lovers. I kept calling her because I felt diserspected. Then her ****ing bf pick up the phone call me punk he doesnt even know me. Then I kept texting her because she flipped on me suddenly, she doesn't want to talk me on the phone. I wanted to know if she did it on purpose to hurt me. Then I found out that her bf is reading all my messages and he is one who is texting me because he insulted through text message then he picks up the phone when I did call. He even got my phone number and texted me using a yahoo screen name not his phone number to tell me that she told him that I have a small belly that she doesn't like and my people smell like goat. The funny thing is that she used to go down on me. I texted her telling that she is being so immature for saying that about her friend. Plus she is coward for hidding and not talking to me on the phone and I like to get in a fist fight with that guy and he is a pussy because he didn't even use his number. I just got so furstrated with the situation.Then I waited like a month and texted her again telling her that I know that you don't want to hear from me but why you said that stuff about me. Then I got a message yeah you smell like a goat. Then I told her yeah you used to go down on me all the time and you used to smell sometimes. It is like middle school kids. Then I found out that her bf is texting me not her because he starts saying I have sex with her now she is mine. She used to have mint all the time in her mouth because her breath didn't smell good. I feel it is so immature to mention or talk about that stuff. Then he tells me something about my personal life which she told him. I sent her an e-mail telling her about those texts but not reply. Then a text telling her to stop talking about me behind my back and how she is hateful. Then another text asking that guy to get in a fight with me. Sending text messages is just a waste of my time because I am getting ignored. I have no communication with her at all. It is just I am so pissed off. I really like to punch that guy in his face, but the long distance is making it hard to do. I have a lot of anger inside of me and I dunno what to do. It is just hard for me to let it go.
january2010 Posted December 19, 2010 Posted December 19, 2010 She's with someone else now and as you wrote, your relationship with her was just a FWB relationship and not serious. Therefore the energy you seem to be devoting to maintaining this connection with her and even caring what either of them thinks or says about you seems misplaced. I suggest letting it go and going NC with her. Block her number. You don't need to get wound up anymore than you are already. You need to move on with your life. To channel the anger, try working out, running, something physically exhausting to release that negative energy. There really is no reason to get violent with your ex's boyfriend. Words are just words.
SincereOnlineGuy Posted December 20, 2010 Posted December 20, 2010 God this is classic stalker behavior. Stop stalking this woman.
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