tobydog Posted December 18, 2010 Posted December 18, 2010 I know I was a bad wife for a few months but how can he just desert us? In 13 weeks he has been awful, shown no care or compassion, just gone, vanished from our life. No concern when his son was ill, when we were snowed in, nothing. There must be AW right? For a good family man to do this to us? Please help me understand......
Don_da_Ho Posted December 19, 2010 Posted December 19, 2010 You must have been a real biatch. Guys tire of that. IF there's AW, that's probably on you. You might want to go read Dr. Laura's "The proper feeding of husbands". Good luck!!
Author tobydog Posted December 19, 2010 Author Posted December 19, 2010 No I'm not, that's just it. I am a kind and loving person. popular, friendly and loyal. So why did I push him away? Did I really love him, I know he got on my nerves for a while and I ignored him all summer. Tho we did have lots of family walks every day....Maybe he wasn't right for me and I can't accept that he took 14 years of my life, but given me the son I wanted....I just don't know anymore......But he def does hate me..... I find that hard to deal with even tho it is largely my fault.....I'm in a mess again.......
Don_da_Ho Posted December 19, 2010 Posted December 19, 2010 Sounds like you both had your part and it's broken. You might want to post in the Coping section to see if you can get further advice on what to do to feel better.
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