I think she is interested in her ex. Should I still ask her out and tell her how I fe

[inks1231]

hi, I just wanted to know if you guys think this girl is interested on me or not. I met her last semester at the community college before I transferred to a university. Back then we didn't talk much because she had a boyfriend and I was trying to get my ex back. Anyways, a couple of weeks ago we started talking a lot more. She gave me her number and we text almost everyday. I'm usually the one that text first but she always answers my txt. Last week I asked her out for the first time and she said yeas. We went to the movies and then dinner. We are part of the same non profit org, so we see each other often. I have noticed that she is always smiling and looking at me. Also, when we talk sometimes she touches my shoulder or my arm. I wanted to ask her out on another date to tell her how I feel, but today something happened. We were invited to the same party and I told her that I could give her a ride because I didn't want to get to the party by myself, and she agreed, Everything was fine until her ex boyfriend showed up at the party. He lives an hour away but he was around and she invited him. They were together all night, although it seems that she likes him more than he does. After the party she told me if it was OK if she left with him and I said yeah. My question is, should I still ask her out to tell her how I feel, or should I wait?

[Seamless74]

Man when are people gonna start listening??? How many threads have been about this exact situation.. Your just friends thats it.. if you actually talk everyday, went on a date (which to you was trying to progress towards sex, to her it was a free movie and dinner), and if youve already made the mistake of texting everyday.. My brother you are officialy "FRIENDZONED" hardcore. Your participating in the wussification of American Males By women who think its ok to go on Friend dates.. I mean if youve done all these things without so much as even a kiss or anything your so screwed...

 

My real question to you at this point outside of the obvious (Why were you behaving like this in the first place)? Is why are you considering telling you how you feel at this point? I mean yeah she probably left with her ex boyfriend and sucked him off on the way home and your sitting here thinking about whether or not to tell her how you feel..??

 

 

Let me give you a glimpse of the future.... Go ahead tell her how you feel ask her out on another date, problem is pretty soon your gonna realize she was just leading you on (unknowingly of course) and after she rejects your sexual advances (which are much , much, too late by the way) its gonna make your friendship and workplace environment how shall we say ? Icky at best..

 

You messed up bro.... Dont do that friendship crap again with a girl your interested in... especially not at work