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I say ask yourself, "If I had a hottie wife, and we were having problems, would it be ok for her to start fooling around with the neighbor?"

 

Karma has a way of biting us in the ass when we least expect it. Would I hit it? Sure, if I thought the resulting ass beating I'd receive from the husband was worth it.

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I say ask yourself, "If I had a hottie wife, and we were having problems, would it be ok for her to start fooling around with the neighbor?"

 

Karma has a way of biting us in the ass when we least expect it. Would I hit it? Sure, if I thought the resulting ass beating I'd receive from the husband was worth it.

 

yes, karma. he better hope if he decides to help himself to someone else wife that the guy isn't just like O.J.

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Seriously Not Cool.

 

Whats not cool about it. Theres no harm in trying. We are sexual beings. Try to utilize everything we have to the fullest.

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Turn around and run the other way. It is not worth it. Also I would bet my house that her husband is not nearly as bad as she says he is. Women like her always find a bunch of excuses.

 

It doesnt matter even if this women has like 5 kids with her husband. If she has attraction for this guy it will work atleast a fling would result.

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I've Been In a Very Similar Situation

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I was in a very similar situation. I waited until she made her move and when we hit it off oh it was the best and most enjoyable and memorable thing Ive ever done so far.

 

I can give you a few tips.

 

Its your choice either make a move or make her make the the move. I would make her make a move. Remember a few things:

1) Until you've slept with her, limit your conversations to her for five minutes.

2) Her boyfriend is irrelevant. Anytime she or anyone mentions anything about her boyfriend/husband hear everything but dont talk anything. Act as if you dont care.

3) Never confess your attraction to her. She'll interpret this as a sign of weakness.

 

There was something weird I experienced when this happened to me. When she made her move, I soon told her "you can go away if you want to". Teller her that made her want me more.

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This seems like the best advice here. Thanks. I'll definitely have to see what's up. If she continues the looks and hard flirting, I'll have to see if she feels something for me, and if we can "get it on" so to speak. Of course I'm not dumb. I know this woman is not a worthwhile girlfriend potential because she doesn't seem like the type that could be a loyal life partner.

 

I'm not saying she's a hoe or anything like that, but considering the way she met her current husband, and they way she's acting with me, any guy who'd want to stay longer with her after the physical fun, is only thinking with his peewee.

 

But she's a real hottie. For the guys out there, imagine a real hot latina MILF.....she's the classic definition of it. I mean I've had girls my age, but something like this will never come back to me in my life, and many of us boys dream of it in one shape or the other so I guess it's time I live the dream.

 

I mean to even flirt with me in front of my own mother and asking my mother, in an anxious way, if I have a girlfriend or not, along with the constant looks means something is up that tree. I wish to dig!!!! Wish me luck love shack!!!!!

 

This is definitely something you dont want to do.

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Well he did say she told his mom he was handsome or even hot. So guess he isn't a bow wow. Guess he figures he might as well take the opportunity if its presenting itself.

Yuh. It's different for guys--even good-looking ones. Females only have to flash a smile and guys think their lives just changed. Guys can flash smiles at women for the good part of a deade and have not a clue if it registered anywhere. So, it might seem like an easy thing to just go out and land a beautiful woman of comparitive looks but that ain't happening in the time frame or certainty that it could be for this lad. If it were easy, I'd be on the band wagon of telling him she's married. But it's not the same for men and he's not looking for Miss Right. He's looking for Miss RIGHT NOW. :p That's natural for a young guy. Maybe she'll break him in.

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Whats not cool about it. Theres no harm in trying. We are sexual beings. Try to utilize everything we have to the fullest.

 

are you serious? the woman is married. people need to learn to control their lower functioning impulses and have some respect.

 

if she was single (which she is not) than ya, go for it. but she is married. Its not cool.

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I've Been In a Very Similar Situation

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I was in a very similar situation. I waited until she made her move and when we hit it off oh it was the best and most enjoyable and memorable thing Ive ever done so far.

 

I can give you a few tips.

 

Its your choice either make a move or make her make the the move. I would make her make a move. Remember a few things:

1) Until you've slept with her, limit your conversations to her for five minutes.

2) Her boyfriend is irrelevant. Anytime she or anyone mentions anything about her boyfriend/husband hear everything but dont talk anything. Act as if you dont care.

3) Never confess your attraction to her. She'll interpret this as a sign of weakness.

 

There was something weird I experienced when this happened to me. When she made her move, I soon told her "you can go away if you want to". Teller her that made her want me more.

 

 

i guess i am old fashioned and still have morals. i still have respect and do not cross that line, whether she's making eyes at me or not.

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If she gives him the chance he will bang her, period. He is caring about his needs not the fact she is married. He probably figures if she doesn't care, why should he.

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I will bash my own gender for a change and admit that this is proof that some men think only with their penises.

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I will bash my own gender for a change and admit that this is proof that some men think only with their penises.

 

I'll agree to an extent. Or at least I can talk about myself. Yes I want her to "break me in" so to speak. I want to bang her until I become a pro. I've only had a few experiences, but nothing what this woman can offer me. Trust me, you can sense the fact that she's a pro being near her. She's got a figure to die for and she GOT A TRAMP STAMP ON HER LOWER BACK!!!! lol

 

But if I was in love, my penis would be only for my wife. I'd have no problem being with one woman if I fell in love with her. But I haven't fallen in love yet.

 

In fact, I can argue that I'm thinking with both my penis and brain because I only want to bang this woman. I wouldn't be dumb enough to fall in love with her and be with her like that. Just knowing how she met her husband, and how she flirts with me and gives me the looks and all the stuff she's done being married makes me realize she's not wife material. I mean physically she easily is. But after that......nope. So I used my brain and realized I only want to bang her.

 

But to tell you all the truth, I'm thinking twice about it. I have no doubt that if I get away with it, she can give me the ride of my life (literally). But she's a bimbo. That means she won't be able to keep her mouth SHUT. And her husband is a local politician (aka he knows people). I don't want a bullet inside of me. He doesn't seem like the nice type. I mean if it was hand-to-hand, I'd f*&k him up easily but a crazy nutjob jealous husband never fights hand-to-hand so....

 

But what if she tells me they're probably going to get divorced or something like that???? Then I'd really think twice.

 

I'll keep you all updated. I know that within the beginning of the new year (after the holidays), I'll see her and get potential moments alone with her. But I'd love more opinions and thoughts.

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I've Been In a Very Similar Situation

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I was in a very similar situation. I waited until she made her move and when we hit it off oh it was the best and most enjoyable and memorable thing Ive ever done so far.

 

I can give you a few tips.

 

Its your choice either make a move or make her make the the move. I would make her make a move. Remember a few things:

1) Until you've slept with her, limit your conversations to her for five minutes.

2) Her boyfriend is irrelevant. Anytime she or anyone mentions anything about her boyfriend/husband hear everything but dont talk anything. Act as if you dont care.

3) Never confess your attraction to her. She'll interpret this as a sign of weakness.

 

There was something weird I experienced when this happened to me. When she made her move, I soon told her "you can go away if you want to". Teller her that made her want me more.

 

Great advice. What "move" exactly did she make??? I mean were you both alone and she just kissed you??? She held you a certain way??? What exactly did she do???

 

Also anyone else who's banged a gorgeous married woman, please give you experience (both good and bad) and share tips.

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re: so I'm not the one cheating. I would never cheat.

..... What about INTEGRITY? Her husband must deserve some kind of respect and honor or is it that you just don't have any honor or dignity???

How about asking her to divorce him so you can both go ahead and 'do' each other - HONORABLY?

 

re: But to tell you all the truth, I'm thinking twice about it. I have no doubt that if I get away with it, she can give me the ride of my life (literally). But she's a bimbo. That means she won't be able to keep her mouth SHUT. And her husband is a local politician (aka he knows people). I don't want a bullet inside of me.

..... Oh well, just get what you can and then LEAVE TOWN!

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But to tell you all the truth, I'm thinking twice about it. I have no doubt that if I get away with it, she can give me the ride of my life (literally). But she's a bimbo. That means she won't be able to keep her mouth SHUT. And her husband is a local politician (aka he knows people). I don't want a bullet inside of me. He doesn't seem like the nice type. I mean if it was hand-to-hand, I'd f*&k him up easily but a crazy nutjob jealous husband never fights hand-to-hand so....

 

But what if she tells me they're probably going to get divorced or something like that???? Then I'd really think twice.

Sounds like you're now thinking with your big head, and not just your little head. Good to hear.

 

Keep in mind that LOTS of cheaters tell the person they're cheating with, "it's okay, we're married in name only, we haven't had sex in years, he/she won't care, etc." Usually, they do this because (a) they want the person they're contemplating cheating with to go through with it, and (b) they want to convince themselves that they're justified in cheating. The reality is that, for most cheaters who say those things, it's bullshyt. And their spouse ends up getting blindsided.

 

Being a local politician, most likely her husband is a very busy guy -- lots of evening meetings, dinners, events, etc. She's probably feeling neglected and ignored, to a degree. As an older woman, she'll get a huge ego boost from having a much younger guy drooling all over her and wanting to get into her pants.

 

I'm not saying her husband isn't a complete a55hole. Maybe he is. Maybe he cheats on her all the time. Maybe they DO only have a marriage in name only. But the reality is, you don't know. All you'll have to go on is what SHE tells you. And what she tells you is coming from somebody who's contemplating cheating on her spouse, and thus suspect as to its truth.

 

If you later find out that they've actually separated and he's moved out, then it's a different story -- tap that ass all you want. (Be sure to "armour up".) The possible repurcussions will be considerably less. But as long as she's still living with the guy, and he's still living in your building... best avoided.

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Dude, she's married.... Some old friend I found on Facebook tried to start something with my wife.... So, I told him I would do some damage if he did anything, he backed out fast.....

Now, another friend told me he ain't worth going to prison for, but I told my Friend my wife is worth it....;)

I bet this is precisely what goes through the head of a future ex-wife murderer. As long as it's not a crime to not be sexually exclusive, posters here show passive-aggressiveness to theaten the OP instead of working within the law to change the fidelity law.
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I'm looking into my crystal ball and here's what I see:

If the MW is interested, he will eventually let the little head do the thinking for the big head and enter into an A with her.

 

They will eventually get caught, and she'll toss him away like a gum wrapper.

 

Later down the road he'll fall head over heals in love and marry the "love of his live".

 

She'll get that 7 year itch, and get the hots for that younger guy at the gym.

 

She'll end up screwing her young F toy, and eventually leave our original poster high and dry.

 

Karma's a bitch my friend

 

Think before you leap.

 

Besides, if her H knows what he's doing, they'll never find your body.

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I'm looking into my crystal ball and here's what I see:

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She'll end up screwing her young F toy ...

 

Karma's a bitch ...

 

 

I'm confused. Are you trying to encourage or discourage the OP from letting this wife use his pogo stick? How did her marriage start again?

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