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My parents love Aron, they've invited him on trips to Mexico and New York City. They flew in to take him to dinner for his birthday. My parents provide for me financially and Aron has always resented this.

 

He tells me that I'm lazy because I don't work. I study alot and go to school full time. I love life and know one day I'll have to work forever and want to enjoy my free time now.

 

I study International Business and have done lots of traveling. I enjoy learning foreign languages and do lots of reading. I still don't know what my main passion in life is or what I want to do with the rest of my life. I know I want to help people and I want to be happy. To Aron this is a weakness, not knowing what exactly one wants.

 

Aron went to study in Australia and stopped calling me. I called him and asked him whether something had happened and why he was responding to my emails. He was silent and finally told me that was his way of giving me a hint. He told me that he doesn't see me as a woman he could possibly be with forever, because

I don't work and his mother doesn't like me.

 

I thought that was the lamist excuse and told him I'm glad he finally said something and wished him a good life and that was that. After hanging up I felt life someone had kicked my chest. Not only is there a desparate feeling and longing, but there is physical pain that comes: the headaches, the sadness, the crying. I wish this upon noone and hope to recover from soon.

 

Love, (who knew), is just as bitter as it is sweet.

 

-Erica

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aww

i know it doesnt help but you are better off with out him and now you can think forward and think about your free time now spend it wisely go out and have fun and forget about him. Find someone who likes and loves you for you and not for weather you work or not, and they dont care about what other people think about you.

If they know they like you nowone should effect that.

 

:)

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Everyone doesn't find their calling in life at the same time. Some have parents to guide them, others have to make their own way. Don't worry, life isn't over. You will get through this. The sun will shine upon you again. If he can't accept you for who and what you are, forget him.

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gosh when u say how ure feeling..i can tell u i feel the same thing

its like this weird chest feeling..and this thing whcih makes u wanna be with him and u miss him...and ure sad, sick, confused, concerend, angry....in love again..its crazy!!!

 

my bf of 3 years broke up with me yesterday and i loved him like ive NEVER loved anyone else..and his family liked me and my family liked him alot too!! we did everything together and he was my best friend and bf all in one..and now without him i have nothing to look forward on the weekends, or at nights when we said goodnight!!

 

im sorry u also have to go through this..its HARD! ITS REALLY HARD!! and sometimes we think that we are the only ones going through this...i feel like no one can feel the pain i have inside and that no one can ever understand but the truth is that lots of people go through this and we can become stronger, and better!!! even though its hard at the beginning...this is my 1st day as single and im struggling..i miss him so much..i just want to hear his voice and tell him i love him, i want to scream to the world that i love him, i want to hug him and him tell me that he wants to be with me...but it just cant happen!!!!

 

sooner or later..we will come to our senses or we will just heal

 

we just have to take it DAY by day and not think about tommorow, or next week, or a month from now cos that will just makes it OVERWHELMING!!! we just have to keep our minds busy and not just sit at home...:( but even though im sayiong all this there this emptiness in my heart, in my soul that i cant get rid of...and Im praying to Jesus Christ to give me Strength!! and to heal me as soon as possible..even though i have a feeling it will take a long long Time and i realy think i will forever love him!!! because I do love him still ALOT and i dont want to be with anyone else!

 

but just lets both be strong, we need to support eachother, and realize that even though we love them so much and want to be with them we have to also learn to love ourselves so much to not let ourselves be sad...the same way we would wanna help them if they were sad and down is the same way we have to help ourselves:(

 

Good luck and lets pray for eachother and for anyone who has to deal with this!!!!

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