BlindRage Posted December 17, 2010 Posted December 17, 2010 Just as the title says. Did you ever had a teenage/high school and a little bit through college romance? How long did it take you to get over it?
sally4sara Posted December 17, 2010 Posted December 17, 2010 3x The first was just due to growing up and apart as will happen in life. I had too many things I had to do for myself and things were crazy for me. I was his first GF and he lived a Beaver Cleaver life. I had to let him go while I sorted my stuff out. By the time I did, he'd met someone else. Still friendly with him and his family tho. It took about a year to stop stinging. And then another of knowing him just as a friend to see we wouldn't have been good together anyway. Second was my ex husband. Much easier to get over a heart break when it happens in the middle of the relationship and the rest of the time is pure hell. You're over it by the time the relationship dies. I don't even remember what I loved about him now. Third? Mr. Nothing has got a lot to say. He's good at being what he's not and gives nothing away. A few months of being hurt over it and when he came crawling back I saw everything he didn't want me to see when we met. The pain died immediately because I knew who I loved didn't exist in him. One of the differences in the getting over it when its a HS/college relationship is love is new to you. You will probably love someone else more later, once you know more about what love means. And this comparison will just make the HS/college love you felt seem thin, less weighty and more bittersweet rather than gut wrenching.
Leandro Posted December 17, 2010 Posted December 17, 2010 only 1 time. That was my ex. I'm sure it won't be the last one either.
tobydog Posted December 17, 2010 Posted December 17, 2010 A couple of times in my teen age years. Can't remember the pain. But this is the one that has totally ripped my heart out...........
paleblue Posted December 17, 2010 Posted December 17, 2010 a few times, i think 4. its funny now that i am thinking about it, how heart borken i was feeling with the last one, but so did i with the one before that, and the one before that and the one before that, but yet i dont remember it anymore. i just remember some one being an a- hole. i think that just proves that if you are going thru heartbreak, it wont last forever. you will get over it. it just takes time.
Anxiety Posted December 18, 2010 Posted December 18, 2010 Only once, and I hope never again...but I hope for the opportunity. I'll never find love again unless I risk breaking it.
GG67 Posted December 18, 2010 Posted December 18, 2010 This is the 4th for me. Each time feels just like the 1st time.
nj10 Posted December 18, 2010 Posted December 18, 2010 just once..and like Anxiety, i just hope never again..
Nikki Sahagin Posted December 20, 2010 Posted December 20, 2010 3 times...by the same person....lol Although, perhaps i'd say 4 times as i'm sure part of my heart broke when my grandmother died. Also when my rabbit died, I was 6? I was so hysterical and distraught i'm sure to my 6 year old self that was a heartbreak *nods*
dng Posted December 20, 2010 Posted December 20, 2010 Twice for real. Had some bumps before and after the first one but nothing I didnt get over in a month or two. Once at 24 and once at 35.
TG4MJ Posted December 20, 2010 Posted December 20, 2010 Well I've been hurt and rejected so many times I actually divided them into sections. I have girls who *wounded* my heart, and I got girls who have out right *broken* my heart. Wounds are minor and heal quickly, and I've had several of those. In terms of being out right heartbroken, it's happened only about 4 times. Twice as a teen, twice as an adult.
marqueemoon4 Posted December 28, 2010 Posted December 28, 2010 i've loved 4 women and all 4 have broken my heart.
Ajax Posted December 28, 2010 Posted December 28, 2010 Three times. And each time was worse than the one before it.
Mrlonelyone Posted December 28, 2010 Posted December 28, 2010 Six times that I can recall. Every time it felt worse than the time before when I was in the moment. Only two of those times was with adult relationships. To be honest it feels worse in your 20's and I'll bet once in my 30's heartbreak will feel even worse. The way I look at it now, heart break is needed for moving on. Only something so painful could cut the ties that bind.
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