joeLove Posted December 17, 2010 Posted December 17, 2010 This girl and I used to live in the same city. We used to see each other regularly at social gatherings, because we shared the same hobbies and have plenty of mutual friends (male and female) that we know from our social activities. At some point, we even flirted lightly, but not for long, as I started dating another girl from the same social circle. A while later, she decided to move to another city on the other coast. She said "things weren't happening for her in this city and she needed a change ". She moved with her sister's family, so she could save some money and finish her Masters Degree. After she left, we kept in touch as facebook friends. We exchanged mails, and I offered her plenty of words of encouragement and lifted her spirit up, so she could get through this rough spot in her life. I became single again a while back. And I started going out and meet new people. However, I haven't met anyone that caught my interest seriously. One day I thought 'what could be, if she and I became more than just friends', So I figured why not bring up the topic. In one of our email conversations, i mentioned that idea ... she decided not to respond to it at all. Until today, she has refused to even talk about it. However, not long after my inquiry, she changed her facebook profile picture to a picture that shows us both together. Then another time, she posted some pictures of herself. I commented on one of the pictures, saying that she was the prettiest girl in the world ... a few days later, she made that picture her profile picture and it has remained there for a long time now. Furthermore, I heard from one of our mutual friends that she has seriously talked to her about coming back to town for a visit ... So, I'm curious to hear (Ladies) what might be going on in her mind ... Would it be a good idea for me to be a little more patient? or just forget about it and move on? She is 30 and I'm a couple of years older. Also, as I have grown older, I have been less and less incline to date "strangers"(like online or people i meet randomly) and try to stick more to people I have known for longer period ... Joe
fishtaco Posted December 17, 2010 Posted December 17, 2010 She sounds like she's bad news. Not responding is rude, that means you don't matter to her. She put on her profile pic of you two together possibly because she's playing FB mind games with some other cute guy she's currently messing with. Then after you said she looks pretty, she put that as her profile pic. Well of course, what woman would not want to do that? But it may be because some other guy told her she looks pretty in that picture. Don't assume it was because of you. She may be coming to town for a visit, but she didn't talk to you about it, it wasn't for you. If you multi date, then there's no problem. Go out and have fun. When she's in town, put your moves on her, you've got nothing to lose anyway. But if you don't multi date, then you have to predict the future. From what I've heard so far, she seems like a no go. How good are you at predicting the future? Cuz I suck at it.
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