moxie60 Posted December 17, 2010 Posted December 17, 2010 I met this guy on an online dating site we have hung out a few times, the last couple if times he seemed to show interest in me like putting his hand on my knee, showing clear signs that he is interested in me, we have kissed both times we have hung out and he was the one that made the move to kiss me on both occasions. But when it comes to talking to each other when we are not hanging out, I am the one who has to call him, or text him. He always writes me back right away, but since the last time we hung out I sent him a text to see how he was doing and if he wanted to hang out when his school finals are over with. That was last weekend, I never got a reply back. That was a week ago. I sent him a text an hour ago and nothing. I have been worrying all week that he was no longer interested, but now I am even more worried. How much longer should I wait before I should give up? I hung out with a friend of his last weekend and she asked me if I still hung out with him, and I said we do sometimes, and she told me he quite a lady's man... is he just playing me?
Str8noChaser Posted December 17, 2010 Posted December 17, 2010 I met this guy on an online dating site we have hung out a few times, the last couple if times he seemed to show interest in me like putting his hand on my knee, showing clear signs that he is interested in me, we have kissed both times we have hung out and he was the one that made the move to kiss me on both occasions. But when it comes to talking to each other when we are not hanging out, I am the one who has to call him, or text him. He has shown a PHYSICAL interest in you. she told me he quite a lady's man... is he just playing me? Take heed to what she said. If he is in fact with other woman, which is his right if he is not in an exclusive relationship, then after a few sessions of trying to move to the next base with you, he may think you are a tease and have moved on. I'd suggest you do the same or at the very least, start looking for other options.
SerpentX Posted December 17, 2010 Posted December 17, 2010 I think if a guy is interested in you, then he will make the time and effort to get back to you, and to contact you in the same way you contacted him. You should forget about him and move on. If he happens to come along again, and you are still willing and available to see him, then great, maybe something can come from that. I wouldn’t hold my breath for him. Life is too short, and I am sure there are plenty of guys out there who actually want to be with you and spend time with you. Don’t waste your time and energy on someone who doesn’t.
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