Heyyou Posted December 16, 2010 Posted December 16, 2010 What do you think? I want it to be very sweet, and I want him to be very happy for it Any ideas?
TaraMaiden Posted December 16, 2010 Posted December 16, 2010 Absolutely nothing. Do not give him anything, buy him anything, send him anything or wish him anything. Nothing. Zip. Nada. Zilch. If he dumped you, you'll be seen as clingy, someone who can't let go, and basically ripping your own wounds and making them bleed, and trying to regain his affection. This will just irritate the crap out of him. If you dumped him you'll be seen a someone who can't let it be, an ego-trip self-interested narcissist who's only trying to say "See, I can still yank your chain" and you'll just rip his wounds wide open and make them bleed. This will just irritate the crap out of him. He's an Ex for a reason. Ex's should be left well and completely alone. COM-PLETELY.
Capital P Posted December 16, 2010 Posted December 16, 2010 Possibly the worst idea eve. My ex gave me sex for xmas for a lot of years. When she stopped diong that, i wanted it.
dk.bnz.chi Posted December 16, 2010 Posted December 16, 2010 something sweet? hmmmm how about a nutcracker:)
Lauriebell82 Posted December 17, 2010 Posted December 17, 2010 Why would you want to give your ex a Christmas gift?
WTRanger Posted December 17, 2010 Posted December 17, 2010 Don't even give your ex coal, as at least coal is a gift. Unless your ex could jam the coal up their ass and proceed to crap diamonds. Then it'd be the gift that keeps on giving. Nothing is the best gift you can give. Better yet, buy yourself a gift. Take that money and spend it on the most important person. You.
Author Heyyou Posted December 17, 2010 Author Posted December 17, 2010 Possibly the worst idea eve. My ex gave me sex for xmas for a lot of years. When she stopped diong that, i wanted it. But I guess that you still had feelings for her then? but wasn't it as if you were together? With feelings, kisses and so on? Did you see other women in the time you had sex with your ex or was it just her? Okay, please... Tell me the story! How do you become friends with benefits? If you had not been friends with benefits, then you probably had not wanted to have her back later? Isn't that right? (Sorry the english isn't so good, but I'm from sweeden!)
b_rouse Posted December 17, 2010 Posted December 17, 2010 I wouldn't get him anything. If you get him something, and he doesn't get you anything, how will that make you feel? It'll be a very weird, awkward moment that can easily be avoided.
LoveAintEverything Posted December 17, 2010 Posted December 17, 2010 nothing at all...hense he is your EX...give him **** all unless you want to get back to him
dng Posted December 17, 2010 Posted December 17, 2010 Give him exactly what he wanted: space and time. Leave him be.
dk.bnz.chi Posted December 18, 2010 Posted December 18, 2010 you should give him a lap dance,yeah that's a good idea.do it ,do it
homebrew Posted December 18, 2010 Posted December 18, 2010 I hope you are joking about getting him a Christmas present... For your own sake!
skydiveaddict Posted December 18, 2010 Posted December 18, 2010 What do you think? I want it to be very sweet, and I want him to be very happy for it Any ideas? Just a guess, but I'm betting you dumped him, am I right?
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