Emily55555 Posted March 14, 2004 Posted March 14, 2004 ok this is what happened this guy who liked me asked me if i liked him and i sed i wasnt sure... me and him are pretty good friends. Right, so he invited me over to his house and at the start of the night i liked him and wanted to fool around but then when we actually started to, i really didnt want to!! but i told him i liked him. Now he thinks that i do and is going to ask me out.... but i dont want to!!! I dont wanna hurt him and dont know what to say. Does anyone have any good suggestions?
viciouscancer Posted March 14, 2004 Posted March 14, 2004 never send out wrong signals, and dont lead people on. if i like someone i will make them kno in ways. if i dont want to be with someone than i will not bull**** them. in order to make things work out u have be make things crystal clear. think about being more direct in who and what u want. viciouscancer
FLAT_LINER Posted March 15, 2004 Posted March 15, 2004 being lead on sucks so bad.....please dont do it.... what made u change the way u feel about him?
SoleMate Posted March 15, 2004 Posted March 15, 2004 You can't reject him without hurting him at least a little. Just don't be available, don't go out with him, and don't talk to him when he calls. Of all the crimes of the heart, this one is barely even worth a fix-it ticket.
Author Emily55555 Posted March 16, 2004 Author Posted March 16, 2004 i know i try not to lead him on but i just feel so bad.. its hard, i know i'll just end up hurt him worse in the end.. but if sumone starting hitting on me, i dont think i could tell them im not interested..its kinda just my personality its hard to tell people how i really feel. I'll just have to tell him somehow... im not sure how but.... i dunno im gunna have to say sumthing...
subtitled Posted March 16, 2004 Posted March 16, 2004 don't barr him off.... my ex-boyfriend did this to me in the last week of our relationship and it's really lame. It takes so much more courage and shows you respect them if you are willing to be honest and tell them the truth. I think my ex is such a lamo chicken **** for not actually confronting me and my respect for him absolutely plummeted. It hurt more when he didnt talk to me about it, but rather waited for me to be upset enough to confront him.
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