catscanboy Posted December 16, 2010 Posted December 16, 2010 Hey im new here. So anyway, I had this friend for almost 4 years. During this time we dated and it went well for a while, but we hit a snag and decided to break up. Left me heartbroken but we decided to be friends. She promised me that we would always be friends and would help each other out no matter what. She wanted to date other people, and wanted me to do so as well. We even made plans of having double dates. We have gone through so tough times together and I honestly could not ask for a better friend. We even started off as friends before we dated. 6 months ago, she got herself a new bf. I was a bit jealous and hurt to be honest. But told me not to worry because this wouldnt affect our friendship at all. So I felt ok with it at first. Problem is, after at least 2 weeks after breaking up she started dating this new guy. Not even a month into the relationship, he asked her to move in with him and she agreed. I was so enraged. 6 months later, we have still been good friends until now. She revealed to me last week that she still has feelings for me, and that her realtionship with this new guy is not as good as she thought it was. She was complaining to me that, when we were together, I always had time for her and focused only on her and helped each other out very much. With her new man, its different. She has a daughter from a previous marriage, alot older then her,and the thing that really really bugs me is that he is taking the relationship too too fast! Well after she revealed to me that she still has feelings, she decided to end our friendship. She feels it was getting in the way of her relationship with this guy and wants to see if she can actually love her. She is to blind to see that she is making a mistake. I cant believe she is throwing away this friendship we had for someone she isnt even sure about. So help out a heart broken man here. I have no one else, she was truly a blessing to have in my life and ive never felt so alone in my life. I tried warning her about these signs about him taking it too fast, but she is too stubborn to listen to me. I dont think its love she feels.
michaljetson Posted December 16, 2010 Posted December 16, 2010 Mr. catscanboy that girl whom you love was broke up all your promises At each and every moments of your life , She always with you when she was lonely , But when she was happy then she didn't with you . man its not love ok .
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