GreenPolicy Posted December 20, 2010 Posted December 20, 2010 It's interesting but I've had those feelings in the past, quite soon after the breakup and felt that I was beyond that and accepted that I'd never know. The questions come back though the same as the emotions do I guess. In my situation, what really stings is that I was probably the best relationship she'd ever been in, and I still have no reason to think otherwise. She sat her parents down to tell them I was The One, and how I was different from all the other guys she'd ever dated. She introduced me to her biological father after having no contact with him for years, something she'd never done before. Those are actions, not just words. I know that she came closest to committing to a future with me than anybody she'd ever dated. You go over your relationship with a fine-tooth comb and think "Did I not do enough of this? Did I do too much of that? Did I smother her? Did I neglect her?" The feedback I got throughout our time together was "I love you and want to marry you and you're the best I've ever had." So how could I have done things differently? She never came to me and said "You're not doing this, you're doing too much of that, I don't like this, I'd rather you do that," etc. I've had to tell myself that I didn't engage in any deal-breaker behavior. My ex seems to have deep-seated issues with commitment. I will say the weekends are the absolute worst. Oh man they suck.
bl22 Posted December 20, 2010 Posted December 20, 2010 JON - swfc - sheffield wednesday football club google them - the best team you will ever see, cough. my ex was from sheffield funnily enough. i live in manchester so its not like im going to run into her anytime soon which is good
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