does he or dont he?

[ame]

hi my boyfriend has recently dumped me and ive been a mess, it was totally my fault i read a msg on his fone and hes saying i dont trust him, i do but when its there infront of u u just cnt help urself. he said that it was the final nail in the coffin and that he dont love me yet only 3 hours before r row he said he did? so does he or dont he???

hes just started up his own business and has been really stressed to that and i think our row pushed him to far.

well he has agreed to meet me on saturday to talk even tho i dont think he will get back with me. but what i dnt get is he told me that he might be going out friday night, now he knows i will get jealous and worry that he will meet sum1 else as we aint together, but y say to me? y try to make me jealous? is it to c if i do trust him? does it mean he still has feelings for me?

advise will b very greatful cuz i feel im goin crazy x

[creighton0123]

Honey,

 

It seems like he is unhappy with you and was looking for an excuse to bail. Some people will tell you that they love you simply because it is easier instead of creating awkwardness when he doesn't respond.

 

You read a text message of his. It has little to do with whether you trust him or not, but gave him a quick excuse to end something that he is not happy in.

 

It perhaps has little to do with you or little to do with him. Instead, it's just something that happens.

 

Heartache sucks. Talk to him and settle things if you wish.

 

You said:

 

"well he has agreed to meet me on saturday to talk even tho i dont think he will get back with me. but what i dnt get is he told me that he might be going out friday night, now he knows i will get jealous and worry that he will meet sum1 else as we aint together, but y say to me? y try to make me jealous? is it to c if i do trust him? does it mean he still has feelings for me?"

 

Things aren't generally that complicated. Chances are he just mentioned he was going out on Friday night. Chances are he didn't mention it to make you worry or to make you jealous. The truth is almost always much more simple. If he is not happy, you should think about suffering the heartache, moving on, and finding someone to share happiness with.

 

Best wishes,

 

Creighton

[Lauriebell82]

This is like reading a text message. I'm not trying to make you feel bad, but could you type without abbreviating words? It will be much easier to read your posts.

 

Anyway, I think you are being a bit paranoid and reading into what he is saying. Chances are, he wasn't happy with the relationship and was looking for an excuse to get out, as the previous poster mentioned. If you continue to have contact with him it will most likely just mess with your head more and you will become more paranoid about the things he tells you.

 

I know it's difficult and it hurts, but the best thing to do is move on and break contact with him.