the_dynamo Posted December 17, 2010 Posted December 17, 2010 girls might be surprised, but being kind is a big plus. while it is true that guys are visual and their first impression and attraction is to the girls appearance, being kind will give a girl an edge if all else is equal to another girl.
OldSkool Posted December 17, 2010 Posted December 17, 2010 (edited) Men don't get with you to listen to your soliloquies about things. We get with you for what's between your legs, dear...... When men go out with you, we spend the entire time trying to figure out what you look like without your clothes on, trying to imagine how your nipples look like. They want to know how that vagina taste like when they place their mouths on it. They want to know if you're a moaner or a screamer. That's more important to them than finding out what you do for a living. And even if you do tell them, their minds goes right back into the gutter. I mean, let's get real here, okay. Let's not sugarcoat this....... Ok, so not to sugarcoat it, the drivel you just posted makes me want to vomit. For the first time, I'm going to use the ignore function! Edited December 17, 2010 by OldSkool
Movingthrough Posted December 17, 2010 Posted December 17, 2010 My biggest quality now I look for besides being physically attractive is realness, being honest. I think a lot (not all) of women nowadays still play the games. You meet them, they want a big chase, you ignore them, they message you back blah blah. I would much rather have a girl that could say "yeah this isn't gonna work out" then the stringing along. I think all sexes play games but to me its getting really popular with girls in this day and age.
NoLongerSad Posted December 17, 2010 Posted December 17, 2010 I have to totally agree with Planet. Even outwardly-ordinary seeming men are obsessed with sex. Men constantly fantasize about sex. Even if they're getting it regularly, every time a (hetero) guy sees an attractive lady, he's fantasizing about what she looks like without clothes; how hot she is in bed; whether she would do the kinky things he's fantasizing about as he mentally undresses her. If I happen to be walking down the street and see an attractive woman, when I start daydreaming about her, I don't daydream about whether she's knowlegable about politics or a gourmet chef. I daydream about her without her clothes on and what it would be like to have sex with her. I will say most guys, in addition to wanting an attractive nice smelling very sexual woman, also want her to be monogamous--they don't want to "share." So faithfulness is the other quality I would want a woman to have, but that kind of goes hand in hand with the sexuality part.
DragonSlave49 Posted December 18, 2010 Posted December 18, 2010 I have to totally agree with Planet. Even outwardly-ordinary seeming men are obsessed with sex. Men constantly fantasize about sex. Even if they're getting it regularly, every time a (hetero) guy sees an attractive lady, he's fantasizing about what she looks like without clothes; how hot she is in bed; whether she would do the kinky things he's fantasizing about as he mentally undresses her. Does this mean that this is really what you want though? Doesn't the thought of another boring conversation or having to go to the mall fill you with dread? So at least isn't it true that there are multiple aspects to attraction? Also, it could be the case that since all you know is the person's looks, you're jumping to these conclusions. Suppose instead you are texting back and forth in a chat room with a girl, you might say "wow, this woman really understands me". I get that feeling myself sometimes.
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