moxie60 Posted December 16, 2010 Posted December 16, 2010 Okay so There is this guy that I like. We met on an online dating site and have hung out a few time. The last time we hung out was a week ago. It was late and kind of a spontaneous thing. I sent him a text earlier that day just to say hi, and he asked me if I wanted to hang out with him that night, he said we can hang out if I get enough school work done. I said okay sounds good. It ended up being pretty late at night that we hung out. I couldn't hang out too long because I had to work the next morning. Well we ended up hanging out for 4 full hours of talking and playing guitar and laughing.He kissed me multiple times. I also told him about the guy that was harassing me in my apartment parking lot, he seemed to get all defensive and said, anytime that happens, let me know I will get a group of my friends and we can come beat him up. He was kidding but it was cute, he was like you need to report him to the police and all this stuff. He kept bringing it up through out the night. They were sweet gentle kisses, not like he wanted to eat my face off . I liked it and went along with it. He was touching my hand and grabbing my hand to touch his leg the whole night. He asked me if I wanted to stay over, and that I could sleep on his bed while he slept on his couch because it was so late. I said politely no thank you and he walked me out to my car and gave me a good night kiss, to drive safe and good night. but he said nothing of hanging out in the future. We hung out on a tuesday. I felt pretty good about my self and what was going on between us for the rest of the week. I sent him a text on Friday to see how he was doing. (Our whole conversations have always been him saying call me anytime and text me sometime, never him calling me.) He said he was super busy with finals coming up and then said and how are you " Miss" (and then my name) Well I replied back said something about school and then asked him if he had any free time this weekend if he wanted to hang out. He never text me back after that. I haven't hear from him since the one text I sent him last Friday night. I think I annoyed him. I want to text him but then again I am afraid he not interested in me anymore. Thats not the end of it. So sunday I got a text from this girl that is a friend of his friend. We all hung out together one night and she and I swapped numbers. I never thought I would hear from her. I honestly thought she was being fake nice to me that night we all hung out; me, the guy I like, his friend and that girl. Any way she said, Hey (my name) I am (so and So's friend) do you remember me? I said yeah and she asked me to hang out that night. We did hang out that night, I met her at a bar along with a few of her friends that I did not know. The whole time I was thinking, I bet ( The guy I like) did this. He doesn't want to hang out with me any more. He isn't interested. Blah blah blah. We this is what she said to me. " do you still hang out with that (guy I like) ? and I replied, "Well actually we hung out earlier this week" And she replied," He is quite the lady's man" My heart sunk after that. That was the only time he was mentioned that night. I felt bummed after that. I can't help but think that he told her to hang out with me and make her not interested in me anymore. I haven't heard from him at all this week, but then again it is finals. Am I just beating my self up over something stupid or do you think that maybe I am just another one of the girls he like to flirt with? I want him to talk to me, but I am afraid he is just going to forget about me. I don't know. I like him and I am afraid I scared him off. Now what should I do? I have been burned in the past by this jerk that kinda did the same thing, said he like me, we slept together, later to find out he was sleeping with other women too. That other guy hurt me and I am just afraid that I maybe I am falling into my old patterns. I haven't slept with this new guy, I refuse to do that unless I in a relationship. Please help shed some light on me. Plus today that girl who I hung out with asked me if I wanted to plan a party with her to meet new people. I didnt mention that I just moved to where I am now. Sorry it is so long.
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