Troubled15 Posted March 14, 2004 Posted March 14, 2004 hey for those who dont no ive split up with my girlfriend like in december i still love her so im finding it hard to accept things and move on we went out for about 10 months so it was quite intense. what dosnt help i see her evryday at school! anyway theres a party/gathering this weekend which will most definalty both be invited to because we share the same friends and i just find it really Hard to be myself when shes there i get jelous when i see her talking to a preticular boy and somtimes fill with some rage which i do control i know i shouldnt be like this but i am and with alcholol being there im sensing that anything could go down at tis party! Im still friends with my ex and i havnt been to a gathering/party for ages because i get upset alot of the time seeing her having fun without me. Do u you think i should go? im not sure what im getting at here anysort of advice, input of ideas will be gratefully appreciate.
look forward Posted March 14, 2004 Posted March 14, 2004 If it hurts you to see your ex moving on then maybe dont go to the party leave it till your ready to deal with.. Its a bit hard as you both share the same friends.. but in time you'll be able to handle it and will be too busy mixing with new girls to even notice what she is doing.. I think you just need a little time to heal thats all.. dont do something or go somewhere when you know will be be uncomfortable for you leave it till your ready...
Author Troubled15 Posted March 14, 2004 Author Posted March 14, 2004 Yeah i think i might have to do that again (bit lonely though!!) thats the annoying thing. thanks
Smoove Posted March 16, 2004 Posted March 16, 2004 in sum wayz im similar 2 u. My ex gf has moved on well i believe. I still feel like crap at times even after 6 months after the breakup. Im different it takes me ages 2 get over it, so just think its normal bro. What gets me through the day tho is GOD, and i just pray to him for strength to accept the change and move on day by day bro. It takes time bro, but its a normal human condition. I heard my ex got in2 a relationship straight after she broke with me, man it killed me so i vowed not to make any contact with her, she wants 2 b friends but man i cant not noweven after 6 months. She doesnt control me, she tells call me after you have a gf, man dats wrong for her to say that. Its like she owns me still. Man stuff dat. Bro, personally dont be friends b/c its 2 difficult to c her even if your over her. Talk 2 her but give a lot of time like when hell freezes over.heheh nah jk. Its up 2 u but ur very emtionally vulnerable and i have learnt that lesson trust me. Im not being harsh, I have forgiven her in my heart, but jesus said "And whosoever shall not receive you, nor hear you, when ye depart thence, shake off the dust under your feet for a testimony against them" (Mark 6:11)
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