Heyyou Posted December 15, 2010 Posted December 15, 2010 Me and my exboyfriend broke up for about 5 months ago. I thought i was over him but the other day I just started to miss him again! I haven't seen him for 3 months, and I did not know how to suddenly say to ham that I was missing him again, so I just went to his house with flowers. I thought that I just was going to be there for about 5-10 minutes, but I first draw home 2½ hours later. He was happy to see me again. He huged me three times... Not just a normal hug, but really a "you still means a lot for me, and I have missed you"-hug! He huged me very close and very long time. HE kissed ME 3 times, and he really wanted to touch me all the time. We laugh and had fun. We talk like we where still together! It was really nice. But then we started to talk about out furture, and he said, that we didn't have a furture together But I do not understand that he was so sensitive and loving. He didn't have sex or anything. He really wanted to do it, but after we talk he said, that he did not wanted to hurt me. So HE stoped the sex. What to do now? He said to me that he still had feelings for me. Is there any way I can win him back? Please help me We where together for a year and we had the greatest relationship ever! We were like soulmates, I really mean it! What would you guys fall for if you should pretend that you were my exboyfriend? I need you help
PegNosePete Posted December 15, 2010 Posted December 15, 2010 Forget him, move on. He is playing with you. He's just saying there might be hope to get in your pants, but he has explicitly said that you're not going o have a future together. NC this guy, and find someone who will treat you better.
Author Heyyou Posted December 15, 2010 Author Posted December 15, 2010 Forget him, move on. He is playing with you. He's just saying there might be hope to get in your pants, but he has explicitly said that you're not going o have a future together. NC this guy, and find someone who will treat you better. No, he don't want to get in my pants. He stopped the sex after we talk about him and I, and he said, that he wouldn't have sex, cause he wouldn't hurt me... He had the oppitunity to have sex with me, so that's not true??????
PegNosePete Posted December 15, 2010 Posted December 15, 2010 He stopped the sex after we talk about him and I Well yeah, talking about a relationship he doesn't want, is the best way to kill any guy's libido Fact remains that he told you you don't have a future together. So just forget him and move on.
SlawKing Posted December 15, 2010 Posted December 15, 2010 Who broke up with who in this situation? If he broke up with you then forget him. He's just messing with you. He doesn't know what he wants and you shouldn't trust that he wouldn't just drop you again in the future. If you broke up with him then he's just being defensive because he still has feelings for you and doesn't want to sleep with you because he knows that his feelings for you will go back to the strength they were day one of the breakup.
Author Heyyou Posted December 15, 2010 Author Posted December 15, 2010 Who broke up with who in this situation? If he broke up with you then forget him. He's just messing with you. He doesn't know what he wants and you shouldn't trust that he wouldn't just drop you again in the future. If you broke up with him then he's just being defensive because he still has feelings for you and doesn't want to sleep with you because he knows that his feelings for you will go back to the strength they were day one of the breakup. Hm... We broke up both of us. He was coming home to me one day, and suddenly we started to quarrel and a half hour later he took home, and then we wasn't together anymore... So it was a suddenly disicion
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