samantha_123 Posted December 15, 2010 Posted December 15, 2010 I broke the no contact rule :/ I was feeling lonely and was upset because I was having a bad day. One of my friends pissed me off quite of a disgusting story but anywho. My ex was always my security blanket with my bad days I got weak … Maybe you guys could help me figure this out for me .. when I was texting him all of a sudden he became this careing guy .. ( with me he would never do or say anything nice to me) hes a nurse at a nursing home out of the blue now he buys the residents gifts.. I asked him why doesn’t he work in his town he said its like leaving one family to another …. He was also bragging how much money he is saving, that he bought himself a new bedroom set ,hes was in line buying seven shirts, hes going on a glamour’s trip . To me I felt like he was rubbing everything in my face. Which I found odd because hes the one that left me like I was the one that was supposed to regret leaving him or something. What do you guys think?
Template Posted December 15, 2010 Posted December 15, 2010 First and foremost, go back onto no contact. There's a reason this is a helpful tool, and you found out first hand how you feel when you did break it. Secondly, there are a great group of people on this board that generally want to care and help others. The world is so huge, and with so many people, yet a lot of us never really felt so alone. This board is great for sounding off those emotional moments. Third, maybe he is unconsciously rubbing it in your face. Maybe he harbors deep rooted resentment which caused your breakup in the first place. As rude as he maybe, you to initiate contact, so you gotta accept that this happened. The most important thing is, what are you going to do today. This was a great learning lesson, and I hope you see it an opportunity go grow emotionally, and get stronger.
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