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I broke the no contact rule :/ I was feeling lonely and was upset because I was having a bad day. One of my friends pissed me off quite of a disgusting story but anywho. My ex was always my security blanket with my bad days I got weak … Maybe you guys could help me figure this out for me .. when I was texting him all of a sudden he became this careing guy .. ( with me he would never do or say anything nice to me) hes a nurse at a nursing home out of the blue now he buys the residents gifts.. I asked him why doesn’t he work in his town he said its like leaving one family to another …. He was also bragging how much money he is saving, that he bought himself a new bedroom set , hes going on a glamour’s trip . To me I felt like he was rubbing everything in my face. Which I found odd because hes the one that left me like I was the one that was supposed to regret leaving him or something. What do you guys think?

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I broke the no contact rule :/ I was feeling lonely and was upset because I was having a bad day. One of my friends pissed me off quite of a disgusting story but anywho. My ex was always my security blanket with my bad days I got weak … Maybe you guys could help me figure this out for me .. when I was texting him all of a sudden he became this careing guy .. ( with me he would never do or say anything nice to me) hes a nurse at a nursing home out of the blue now he buys the residents gifts.. I asked him why doesn’t he work in his town he said its like leaving one family to another …. He was also bragging how much money he is saving, that he bought himself a new bedroom set , hes going on a glamour’s trip . To me I felt like he was rubbing everything in my face. Which I found odd because hes the one that left me like I was the one that was supposed to regret leaving him or something. What do you guys think?

 

Don't feel bad. It took me 6.5 weeks to actually start the no-contact rule. I pathetically begged for my ex back, and couldn't just accept his decision. It's ok to mess up, though. Just try and not do it again. Don't be so hard on yourself, and find others to be your security blanket so you won't be so tempted.

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