lookin4he1p Posted December 15, 2010 Posted December 15, 2010 Ok sorry this is long, I like to include everything just so everythings out and I can see it. I'm a college guy, a month and a half from turning 21 I'm extremely shy whenever I'm by attrative women that I haven't known or really talked to. This semester in one of my classes there's a very attractive girl, and I didn't think in a million years she would have any interest in me. Last weekend I had to attend a play for the class, and I went alone because none of my friends took the class with me. When I arrived she was sitting alone and since I knew her more than anyone else I sat next to her with a seat in between. As it started to fill up she told me to scoot over so no one sat in between so I did. We made small talk, she talked about plans she had later that night, she was going to go to a party and was going to leave at intermission. At one point she said she didn't know if she wanted to go to the party because it was far away and it was cold, but her house is far too, she said she'd go to the bars but she'd feel wierd alone at the bars (she doesn't know I'm not 21 yet, so I don't know if this was a way of trying to get me to ask her to the bars) right when I was going to say I'd go with you if I were 21, the show started. At intermission I had to go to the bathroom, when I got out we passed in the hallway and I told her to have a goodtime. Monday I was standing outside the lecture hall looking down at my phone she walked up and kicked out at my shin so I'd see her. We talked about how the weekend ended up while the lecture hall emptied. When we went in she asked if I wanted to sit by her, I of course did and lecture went fine. Later that day we had discussion and when I got there she was already there so I took the desk next to her that was normally empty. That went well, we continued having discussions from earlier. The point of this story is tomorrow is the last lecture I have for the class and I would like to see her more, but I'm not positive how I should go about it. Does she even seem interested? If I get there first should I go to the part of the lecture hall she sits? Should I ask her out somewhere (Finals are next week though and I don't think there is much time, and not many parties)? I was leaning towards asking her if she wanted to get together to study for the classes final.
youngskywalker Posted December 15, 2010 Posted December 15, 2010 This semester in one of my classes there's a very attractive girl, and I didn't think in a million years she would have any interest in me This might just be a girl flirting or she thinks of you as friend. Or, she might be interested. Do you want to live the rest of your life and wonder what would have happened if you asked her out?
Movingthrough Posted December 15, 2010 Posted December 15, 2010 First off you have to play it cool. I would say something like well I wanna see you again we should hang out. You have been talking to her so nothing is weird, just be cool and don't look any deeper then that.
Author lookin4he1p Posted December 16, 2010 Author Posted December 16, 2010 Thanks for the advice guys. I took a shot today in class, and asked her if she wanted to meet and study before the exam. She said sure and gaveme her number. It's studying, but it's something, and I call that a win haha.
SincereOnlineGuy Posted December 17, 2010 Posted December 17, 2010 Thanks for the advice guys. I took a shot today in class, and asked her if she wanted to meet and study before the exam. She said sure and gaveme her number. It's studying, but it's something, and I call that a win haha. Hey, this is really great news. And congratulate yourself most for having taken a shot (even though you're 'shy'). To me it sounds like you are really going to get a decent chance to make an impression. And all you really need is to give her a CHANCE to get a sense of you while you do same of her. Don't pressure yourself too much, and have fun.
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