Thrown for a loop, caught off guard, all of those things

[Star82]

I have been in undeclared NC with xMM.

I got the strangest call this morning. He called me telling me not to contact him because he is not healthy for me.

OK, I haven't been contacting him, unless I am doing it in my sleep and just don't know it.

What am I missing here?

[Confused4Now]

I have been in undeclared NC with xMM.

I got the strangest call this morning. He called me telling me not to contact him because he is not healthy for me.

OK, I haven't been contacting him, unless I am doing it in my sleep and just don't know it.

What am I missing here?

 

1. He's fishing?
   
2. He had another OOW but he doesn't want to come out with her so threw you under the bus since your gone.
   
3. Maybe he finally came out with it to the wife but she didn't believe it was over. So she wanted proof..
   
4. Maybe he just plain lost it....
   

[spice4life]

Uh oh. Sounds like one of those "I've been snagged" calls. His wife was probably right there when he made the call. Be careful.

[Star82]

His wife knew about me a long time ago, even wanted me to go out to dinner with them so she could meet me, so it's not that.

Maybe he has just lost his $(@*$ mind.

[half_ofa_heart]

We must have been typing at the same time - THERE MUST BE SOMETHING IN THE AIR. I just posted a thread with almost the same title.

[siuys]

I have been in undeclared NC with xMM.

I got the strangest call this morning. He called me telling me not to contact him because he is not healthy for me.

OK, I haven't been contacting him, unless I am doing it in my sleep and just don't know it.

What am I missing here?

 

He's fishing. He wants contact. He's a wimp and is weak.

[SidLyon]

I have been in undeclared NC with xMM.

I got the strangest call this morning. He called me telling me not to contact him because he is not healthy for me.

OK, I haven't been contacting him, unless I am doing it in my sleep and just don't know it.

What am I missing here?

 

Perhaps he's trying to tell you he has an STD, hence he is "not healthy" for you.

[KarmasTestDummy]

I have been in undeclared NC with xMM.

I got the strangest call this morning. He called me telling me not to contact him because he is not healthy for me.

OK, I haven't been contacting him, unless I am doing it in my sleep and just don't know it.

What am I missing here?

 

It's that whole "You can't fire me, I quit" BS. Basically you going NC put him in a state of second guessing. Since it was undeclared, at best he had a sense of something clearly being off but not knowing if you had walked, were thinking out your issues, or what, but he saw the end Coming and figured he'd beat you to the punch to save face.

[ladydesigner]

It's that whole "You can't fire me, I quit" BS. Basically you going NC put him in a state of second guessing. Since it was undeclared, at best he had a sense of something clearly being off but not knowing if you had walked, were thinking out your issues, or what, but he saw the end Coming and figured he'd beat you to the punch to save face.

 

I think it is this as well. God forbid you go NC on him:laugh: Keep up the good work Star. I think he is trying to get back at you anyway he can. Too bad it isn't working, you went NC first:lmao:. What is wrong with these men?