sweetjasmine Posted December 15, 2010 Posted December 15, 2010 in the end of the day, we lick and suck and kiss where they pee from, and they us. True, but urine doesn't carry all the disease-causing bacteria that are found in the anus and in feces. I choose not to engage in this particular activity because of the health risks. Doesn't matter how much I trust someone - they can still cause damage, and I'd rather not risk it.
Feelin Frisky Posted December 15, 2010 Posted December 15, 2010 True, but urine doesn't carry all the disease-causing bacteria that are found in the anus and in feces. I choose not to engage in this particular activity because of the health risks. Doesn't matter how much I trust someone - they can still cause damage, and I'd rather not risk it. Ever hear the expression "I'd eat a yard of her shi+ just to get to that ass"? Well, ............it's true.
harmfulsweetz Posted December 15, 2010 Posted December 15, 2010 True, but urine doesn't carry all the disease-causing bacteria that are found in the anus and in feces. I choose not to engage in this particular activity because of the health risks. Doesn't matter how much I trust someone - they can still cause damage, and I'd rather not risk it. True. But that's why condoms are there.
harmfulsweetz Posted December 15, 2010 Posted December 15, 2010 So much ignorance in this thread. What makes you say that?
elaina Posted December 15, 2010 Posted December 15, 2010 Well, having experienced both, anal sex feels different. Things are tighter, there's more friction, and it's absent the risk of the 9-month door prize. Also, positioning for anal is different, requiring the bottom to give up a little control and trust the inserting partner more. Some straight guys may also get aroused by the 'taboo' topic of it without realizing that a portion of straight couples try it at least once. Babies are precious little human beings... you were one once. Calling a baby a "9-month door prize" seems to devalue babies, in my opinion. About anal sex, it hurts me, but with lots of lubrication and with a loving and understanding partner, it's ok once in awhile. I LOVE vaginal and oral sex though.
Seamless74 Posted December 15, 2010 Posted December 15, 2010 I am female and I enjoy anal sex because it feels amazing. I love the thrill from putting so much trust in my partner to not hurt me (he is very "big") and there are a TON of nerve endings in the anus so yes, if he pays attention to my body language and does what I want/am comfortable with, it feels awesome. Also, I like having him cum inside me without the risk of pregnancy. It makes me feel closer to him. well let me just say its great that you guys have that agreement.. Because cumming inside of your girls anus without permission can lead to a serious argument and the little lady being rather pissed off. Just my experience...Cant really say i blame her. . Men do not have vagina, so that is why anal is done. It is the replacement for vaginal sex. To me, anal sex = very similar to gay sex. That's just the way I see it. yup very similar except your partner is of the opposite sex, so i guess not so similar wtf??
U1987 Posted December 15, 2010 Posted December 15, 2010 I just don't seem to understand. Every man always wants to go through the bum!! Does it not disgust you that it's exit only? That's where stinky, smelly, nasty feces come out of... If a girl enemas right before though, it's actually cleaner than a vagina. why on earth would you want to stick it in there? I just don't see how there could be any appeal on a crap disposal hole. Tighter, no fear of pregnancy, plus the whole domination-appeal.
USCGAviator Posted December 15, 2010 Posted December 15, 2010 I must be the exception because I always go for one that winks and not one that stinks
U1987 Posted December 15, 2010 Posted December 15, 2010 I must be the exception because I always go for one that winks and not one that stinks Vaginas stink sometimes.
SincereOnlineGuy Posted December 15, 2010 Posted December 15, 2010 I just don't seem to understand. Every man always wants to go through the bum!! Does it not disgust you that it's exit only? That's where stinky, smelly, nasty feces come out of... why on earth would you want to stick it in there? I just don't see how there could be any appeal on a crap disposal hole. "Every man" of what ages always wants to go through the bum? The backdoor hasn't been a highlight of straight porn for too terribly long, and I suggest that the 50yo guys, who grew up with tamer porn, aren't as interested in the back door as you seem to imply.
112233 Posted December 15, 2010 Posted December 15, 2010 Men do not have vagina, so that is why anal is done. It is the replacement for vaginal sex Men do not have vagina, so that is why oral is done. It is the replacement for vaginal sex. Men do not have vagina, so that is why handjobs are done. It is the replacement for vaginal sex. If you constrain yourself to only using your penis to penetrate her vagina, then your argument has some internal consistency at least, even if it has nothing else. But is that really the case? Is it the case for most guys who feel anal = gay? I doubt it. Thus it's basically a bullsh*t argument.
NoLongerSad Posted December 15, 2010 Posted December 15, 2010 If it's good enough for my gay brethren, then I figure, it's good enough for me, as a heterosexual, of course I am a "top" not a "bottom" though.
NoLongerSad Posted December 15, 2010 Posted December 15, 2010 I've tried anal, it feels like you are sh*tting. I don't see how that is pleasurable to people. Even to men. You weren't doing it right. Unless the guy you were with is really really experienced and really really knows what he's doing it's not going to be so wonderful. If he knows what he's doing and takes his time getting you used to it (this can take months), it just could blow your lights out--in a good way.
NoLongerSad Posted December 15, 2010 Posted December 15, 2010 I've never tried it and have no intention to. It just seems gross. I see it as a thing that gay men do. I'm more than satisfied with a woman's vagina thank you very much. Well when you've gotten to the point where you've been pounding the same old "vag" for five, ten, or more years, and it's gotten as wide as the Holland Tunnel, you may find yourself changing your tune.
NoLongerSad Posted December 15, 2010 Posted December 15, 2010 Some men like it, some women like it. I believe it's a mental thing. It's just something different. Naughty. I prefer the traditional way. But once in a blue moon, especially if the girl is into it, why not. I was with this chick that had a fantasy about getting DP'ed. I'm not interested in having another guy's schlong involved in my sex making. But when I use my finger or toy or something, she gets REALLY turned on. Different people like different things. I believe sex has a very strong mental aspect. It's not all just biology and where the nerves are or whatever. Never do anal with a girl after she has eaten a dinner of fish tacos.
ComeUndone Posted December 15, 2010 Posted December 15, 2010 Never do anal with a girl after she has eaten a dinner of fish tacos. Hah, gross. Anal can be enjoyable, and the position makes a big difference IMO. Way better for me when I'm on my back on the bed or couch and he's kneeling on the floor - this position actually feels good most times. Doggie-style anal often feels awkward, sometimes uncomfortable. Too much pressure or something... feels like I need to have a BM.
Feelin Frisky Posted December 15, 2010 Posted December 15, 2010 I lerv taking it in the ass (as long as it's made of plastic and cums with a warranty).
Author Hopeful30 Posted December 16, 2010 Author Posted December 16, 2010 Well when you've gotten to the point where you've been pounding the same old "vag" for five, ten, or more years, and it's gotten as wide as the Holland Tunnel, you may find yourself changing your tune. LOL well what about when you have anal sex frequently? That hole can stretch too, and that can come with other consequences that don't include "less-tight penetration" if you know what I mean.
Lucky555 Posted December 16, 2010 Posted December 16, 2010 LOL well what about when you have anal sex frequently? That hole can stretch too, and that can come with other consequences that don't include "less-tight penetration" if you know what I mean. You know there is a point here. Especially as people age they have a harder time controlling their bm and thus I would imagine stretching out the anus would have it's consequences! It would be interesting if there were any scientific studies onthis topic. I bet less people would do it. I know for some it feels great but I like my tightness lol It's made for one thing and one thing only elimination! Hahaha my guy better not Try it...I was wondering why he was feeling me there thinking like what the heck is he doing I looked up why he would be doing That and thought no he so could not want anal... But then it came up..i don't think he has got over the idea either
112233 Posted December 16, 2010 Posted December 16, 2010 Just happy to know I can do my part to help her stay a regular gal!
johan Posted December 16, 2010 Posted December 16, 2010 Some women see an an anus and say why. Some men see an anus and say why not.
johan Posted December 16, 2010 Posted December 16, 2010 All the way to the death? Are you sure you aren't exaggerating?
elaina Posted December 16, 2010 Posted December 16, 2010 Some women see an an anus and say why. Some men see an anus and say why not. Lol! I think that's true!
tigressA Posted December 16, 2010 Posted December 16, 2010 I feel so icky at the idea of having anal sex. I don't think I could ever do it. My last ex tried to get me to do it once when we were both drunk--he hadn't done it at all before and he thought of it as a new, fun thing to try. I screeched my disagreement and he never brought it up again.
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