Hopeful30 Posted December 14, 2010 Posted December 14, 2010 I just don't seem to understand. Every man always wants to go through the bum!! Does it not disgust you that it's exit only? That's where stinky, smelly, nasty feces come out of... why on earth would you want to stick it in there? I just don't see how there could be any appeal on a crap disposal hole.
abust1 Posted December 14, 2010 Posted December 14, 2010 Try touching it sometime, when clean of course.
Author Hopeful30 Posted December 14, 2010 Author Posted December 14, 2010 Try touching it sometime, when clean of course. I've tried anal, it feels like you are sh*tting. I don't see how that is pleasurable to people. Even to men.
Citizen Erased Posted December 14, 2010 Posted December 14, 2010 Probably because they don't feel the way about it that you do.
creighton0123 Posted December 14, 2010 Posted December 14, 2010 "Does it not disgust you that it's exit only? That's where stinky, smelly, nasty feces come out of" Anal penetration, when ready and prepared, is not stinky, smelly, or nasty. If you have a healthy diet and don't have to go the bathroom, there's little chance of anything but a tiny bit of residue. I'm not sure why women enjoy it. It's particularly pleasurable for some men given the presence of a prostate. If it makes you feel uncomfortable, don't do it. Some people just can't be a bottom. If it makes you feel like you described, chances are you're not relaxing enough. My boyfriend and I both enjoy it and have never had issues with cleanliness. Just be safe, use condoms, and plenty of lube. -Creighton
Author Hopeful30 Posted December 14, 2010 Author Posted December 14, 2010 Probably because they don't feel the way about it that you do. Lol well that's what im asking, why do they enjoy it? What do they feel that makes it so arousing?
tinktronik Posted December 14, 2010 Posted December 14, 2010 Probably because they don't feel the way about it that you do. Bingo. OP this is you're answer.
somedude81 Posted December 14, 2010 Posted December 14, 2010 I've never tried it and have no intention to. It just seems gross. I see it as a thing that gay men do. I'm more than satisfied with a woman's vagina thank you very much.
creighton0123 Posted December 14, 2010 Posted December 14, 2010 Lol well that's what im asking, why do they enjoy it? What do they feel that makes it so arousing? Well, having experienced both, anal sex feels different. Things are tighter, there's more friction, and it's absent the risk of the 9-month door prize. Also, positioning for anal is different, requiring the bottom to give up a little control and trust the inserting partner more. Some straight guys may also get aroused by the 'taboo' topic of it without realizing that a portion of straight couples try it at least once.
jdean76 Posted December 14, 2010 Posted December 14, 2010 Yeah, it's not something that interests me in the least. I will never ask my girlfriend to do it and would have to take a long, hard look if she wanted it.
TheBigQuestion Posted December 14, 2010 Posted December 14, 2010 Plenty of dudes aren't into it. I'd say more guys I know consider it a no-go than not.
Feelin Frisky Posted December 14, 2010 Posted December 14, 2010 ... Every man always wants to go through the bum!!... Not so. It doesn't particulalrly do anything for me. Funny thing is that the very first time I got laid, the girl ASKED ME to go up her bum. I did. But it was nothing special. I don't miss it. I on the other hand, like toys, gourds, ears of corn, cucumbers and fingers up there. Whoo--hoo--hoo!
112233 Posted December 14, 2010 Posted December 14, 2010 I see it as a thing that gay men do. So you also don't do anything oral or hold hands in public or own a home anything else gay people do, right? Because those are all things gay people do, after all.
SmileFace Posted December 14, 2010 Posted December 14, 2010 This thread tickles my fancy! LOL kidding
GG67 Posted December 14, 2010 Posted December 14, 2010 I just don't seem to understand. Every man always wants to go through the bum!! Does it not disgust you that it's exit only? That's where stinky, smelly, nasty feces come out of... why on earth would you want to stick it in there? I just don't see how there could be any appeal on a crap disposal hole. Well, when you put it THAT way
fishtaco Posted December 14, 2010 Posted December 14, 2010 Some men like it, some women like it. I believe it's a mental thing. It's just something different. Naughty. I prefer the traditional way. But once in a blue moon, especially if the girl is into it, why not. I was with this chick that had a fantasy about getting DP'ed. I'm not interested in having another guy's schlong involved in my sex making. But when I use my finger or toy or something, she gets REALLY turned on. Different people like different things. I believe sex has a very strong mental aspect. It's not all just biology and where the nerves are or whatever.
Bogo123 Posted December 14, 2010 Posted December 14, 2010 For me its engaging in something forbidden, wrong, nasty and having that domination over a woman. Also the fact that she gives all of herself to me and kinda lets herself go and being completely uninhibited is very hot.
Seamless74 Posted December 15, 2010 Posted December 15, 2010 its taboo its riske', it involves a certain degree of trust, plus its got a whole different feel.. Personally ive had several women ask for it or demand it alot of times its their idea. matter of fact I wouldnt be able to be with a woman long term who wasnt in to it.. I just don't seem to understand. Every man always wants to go through the bum!! Does it not disgust you that it's exit only? That's where stinky, smelly, nasty feces come out of... why on earth would you want to stick it in there? I just don't see how there could be any appeal on a crap disposal hole. does it totally elude you that some pretty nasty stuff comes out of the other hole as well?? Just sayin
Author Hopeful30 Posted December 15, 2010 Author Posted December 15, 2010 does it totally elude you that some pretty nasty stuff comes out of the other hole as well?? Just sayin lol that's true too, but its not toxic waste
artchick88 Posted December 15, 2010 Posted December 15, 2010 I am female and I enjoy anal sex because it feels amazing. I love the thrill from putting so much trust in my partner to not hurt me (he is very "big") and there are a TON of nerve endings in the anus so yes, if he pays attention to my body language and does what I want/am comfortable with, it feels awesome. Also, I like having him cum inside me without the risk of pregnancy. It makes me feel closer to him.
Lucky555 Posted December 15, 2010 Posted December 15, 2010 Ya I think everyone has their preferences. I felt a little turned off by the guy mentioning anal. I am not trying to sound against people who are gay but it made me question the guys sexuality. This is only because he acts kind of feminine sometimes. He is kind of dainty and I'm wondering if he does like guys in any way. I guess the guys reason was because he wanted to see what it's like. However I already think he watches too much porn because his mind is filled with a ton of dirty ideas! Ideas that really he probably gets deom porn. So I know anal is maybe enjoyable to some but it does make me question the guy I'm seeing, his sexuality only because he is more dainty than I am. He also has friends that are mostly women. He has very few male friends. However he does mention how attracted he is with me but I don't know I'm my case I'm questioning.
somedude81 Posted December 15, 2010 Posted December 15, 2010 So you also don't do anything oral or hold hands in public or own a home anything else gay people do, right? Because those are all things gay people do, after all. I should have expected a response like that. Men do not have vagina, so that is why anal is done. It is the replacement for vaginal sex. To me, anal sex = very similar to gay sex. That's just the way I see it. Frankly I'm just not attracted to that part of a woman's body. Nothing more needs to be said.
AverageJoe Posted December 15, 2010 Posted December 15, 2010 I have to say it isnt something I am into. What surprised me the most was how many women wanted it. That is ok though, I am a man that gets to the bottom of things. I normally dont stand at the rear of the line, butt this is something I have gotten behind a few times.
harmfulsweetz Posted December 15, 2010 Posted December 15, 2010 I like it. It's just different, feels nice, and yeah it's a trust thing-you put a lot of trust into the guy to not hurt you, and it's almost a complete 'giving' of yourself to him. Like he controls all of the motion, the depth,speed etc, and you have to trust him enough to give up so much power. Hot. I don't see it as stinky, or anything gross, in the end of the day, we lick and suck and kiss where they pee from, and they us. As long as it's all clean down there, and you don't need to go to the toilet, no problemo. If you worry about cleanliness, you could always pop in the bath beforehand.
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