sibernox Posted December 14, 2010 Posted December 14, 2010 Hey guys. So on wednesday I was driving back home. At a stop-sign, this blonde girl comes up to my car. Long story short, she was lost and I drove her home. She's new to the area. While I was driving, I turn the charm on (or tried to at least). And then before I drop her off, she goes "you're pretty funny, you should add me on facebook". Gives me her name and whatnot. Thursday night I added her. Still no accepted friend request. What should I do? Should I maybe send her a PM going something like "hey, that's not how you treat good samaritans who drive you home. add me as a friend, i've got some pics with my shirt off on my facebook that you can enjoy." Or just forget about it? Should I ask for her number through private message or something? Maybe she doesn't remember my name or something? Thanks all.
laRubiaBonita Posted December 14, 2010 Posted December 14, 2010 that was a very good deed you did! some people do NOT check their FB everyday or even every week. you reached out. enough. otherwise you seem kinda desparate...... being a good samaritan is not expecting anything in return.
bobdole Posted December 14, 2010 Posted December 14, 2010 Sounds like a goldpile post heh. If serious forget her - she'll add you on FB if/when she wants
tinktronik Posted December 14, 2010 Posted December 14, 2010 Leave it alone. If she wants to accept the request she will. If not and you push you've just become creepy stalker dude.
Woggle Posted December 14, 2010 Posted December 14, 2010 Why are you picking up hitchikers? Offer to call a cab for her but there a lot of crazies out there so don't risk it.
sally4sara Posted December 14, 2010 Posted December 14, 2010 A good samaritan doesn't contact you and try to make you feel guilty about accepting their help. But a creepy guy with ulterior motives behind his good samaritan act does....... All you've let be known is if she had been a fat ugly chick - she'd still be lost on the road.
loverofloveandstuff Posted December 14, 2010 Posted December 14, 2010 i've got some pics with my shirt off on my facebook that you can enjoy." lol!! Why do guys do this? I've deleted my facebook now, but I remember when I had just got it, an old guy friend from primary school added me and sent me a friendly message. I replied and then he told me he would 'send me a photo.' I thought that was a bit weird because he already had photos up on his facebook but just said 'oh alright.' He sent me photos of his penis and photos of his chest. wtf?!? Even if I was interested in a guy this would turn me off completely. I didn't reply to the message and a couple of days after he asked me if I could send him some photos... ummm, hell no. *delete friend* Guys: don't do this!! Just leave it. You've already added her, chances are she hasn't even been on facebook since. If she wants to add you, she'll add you. If she doesn't, pushing it with that message will definitely not help change her mind.
Author sibernox Posted December 14, 2010 Author Posted December 14, 2010 You guys don't think I should maybe wait a couple of days and then PM her ? Maybe she doesn't recognize my name/remember me ?
tinktronik Posted December 14, 2010 Posted December 14, 2010 lol!! Why do guys do this? I've deleted my facebook now, but I remember when I had just got it, an old guy friend from primary school added me and sent me a friendly message. I replied and then he told me he would 'send me a photo.' I thought that was a bit weird because he already had photos up on his facebook but just said 'oh alright.' He sent me photos of his penis and photos of his chest. wtf?!? Even if I was interested in a guy this would turn me off completely. I didn't reply to the message and a couple of days after he asked me if I could send him some photos... ummm, hell no. *delete friend* Guys: don't do this!! Just leave it. You've already added her, chances are she hasn't even been on facebook since. If she wants to add you, she'll add you. If she doesn't, pushing it with that message will definitely not help change her mind. What is it with the guys that send penis pictures anyway? I never in my creepiest dreams would desire photos of a man's penis yet they are compelled to send them. WTF are they thinking? I have told my SO about the random penis pictures and he does not believe me. I am going to forward him the next one. OP if the girl does not remember you leave it alone. Find a new girl to talk to that might remember you.
somedude81 Posted December 14, 2010 Posted December 14, 2010 I replied and then he told me he would 'send me a photo.' I thought that was a bit weird because he already had photos up on his facebook but just said 'oh alright.' He sent me photos of his penis and photos of his chest. wtf?!? OMG what?! The horror! You guys don't think I should maybe wait a couple of days and then PM her ? Maybe she doesn't recognize my name/remember me ? Did you attach a message with your friend request or did you just click add friend by itself....? If so, how are you supposed to stand out from all the other random dudes trying to friend her?
Woggle Posted December 14, 2010 Posted December 14, 2010 What kind of guy sends penis pictures? I would never even think about doing something like that. I can see sending a face pic but a picture of a penis?
tinktronik Posted December 14, 2010 Posted December 14, 2010 What kind of guy sends penis pictures? I would never even think about doing something like that. I can see sending a face pic but a picture of a penis? It's usually an early sign of creepiness. You reconnect with an old acquaintance or met someone randomly and it's like BAM, penis pic.... So vulgar. I think there are men who use the internet solely to flash their penis. Like they always wanted to flash strange women in the street.
kiss_andmakeup Posted December 15, 2010 Posted December 15, 2010 What is it with the guys that send penis pictures anyway? I never in my creepiest dreams would desire photos of a man's penis yet they are compelled to send them. WTF are they thinking? I have told my SO about the random penis pictures and he does not believe me. I am going to forward him the next one. OP if the girl does not remember you leave it alone. Find a new girl to talk to that might remember you. This is what goes on in the mind of a guy who sends a penis picture. Guy: "Hmmm...you know what would be awesome? A pic of her boobs! I would LOVE it if she sent me a pic of her boobs! Well, if I want to see her boobs, I bet she wants to see my junk! I'll send her a pic of my junk!" :rolleyes:
loverofloveandstuff Posted December 15, 2010 Posted December 15, 2010 This is what goes on in the mind of a guy who sends a penis picture. Guy: "Hmmm...you know what would be awesome? A pic of her boobs! I would LOVE it if she sent me a pic of her boobs! Well, if I want to see her boobs, I bet she wants to see my junk! I'll send her a pic of my junk!" :rolleyes: hahaha , I think that must be it! The nerve of that guy... I can't believe he asked me to send him photos after he had sent me photos of his penis (which I did not reply to!). Since he didn't specify what kind of photos he wanted me to send, I should've sent him one of my knuckles or some other non sexy body part.
kiss_andmakeup Posted December 16, 2010 Posted December 16, 2010 hahaha , I think that must be it! The nerve of that guy... I can't believe he asked me to send him photos after he had sent me photos of his penis (which I did not reply to!). Since he didn't specify what kind of photos he wanted me to send, I should've sent him one of my knuckles or some other non sexy body part. Or one of you flipping him the bird!!
Am So 5crewed Posted December 17, 2010 Posted December 17, 2010 hahaha....as a guy I have to apologize for the few weird ones out there....I have no idea why anyone would do that. All I can say is that guys, the simpletons that we are, are visually stimulated so I guess they are judging chicks by their own standards. But quite honestly if a chick sent me a photo of her ******* I would probably be horrified. Boobs is different, so if ya want we can exchange pics.....hahahaha
NoLongerSad Posted December 17, 2010 Posted December 17, 2010 A good samaritan doesn't contact you and try to make you feel guilty about accepting their help. But a creepy guy with ulterior motives behind his good samaritan act does....... All you've let be known is if she had been a fat ugly chick - she'd still be lost on the road. Sort of like creepy women on the internet who attack men who post their problems looking for advice?
NoLongerSad Posted December 17, 2010 Posted December 17, 2010 You guys don't think I should maybe wait a couple of days and then PM her ? Maybe she doesn't recognize my name/remember me ? Most likely she was just pulling your leg to get the free transportation from you.
loverofloveandstuff Posted December 17, 2010 Posted December 17, 2010 Sort of like creepy women on the internet who attack men who post their problems looking for advice? So if she was a fat ugly chick he would've picked her up? Come on mate, you know she speaks the truth.
tinktronik Posted December 17, 2010 Posted December 17, 2010 Most likely she was just pulling your leg to get the free transportation from you. Wait, was it the girl pulling his leg pretending to have interest in order to get a ride or was it the guy pretending to be a good samaritan to garner her interest?
Maggotface Posted December 21, 2010 Posted December 21, 2010 If you're really concerned that she's forgetten you then send her a message reminding her that you picked her up when she was lost but leave out the smartass remarks and creepy picture comments. Just a simple reminder will suffice. I don't think it matters that she wasnt fat or unattractive. She approached him and walked up to his car, he saw a cute girl and helped her out. Also, I've gotten quite a few penis pics and it's really disturbing. I don't think any girl is thinking "Hmm, I really wonder what this random guys junk looks like" while texting/emailing someone.
Trimmer Posted December 21, 2010 Posted December 21, 2010 What kind of guy sends penis pictures? I would never even think about doing something like that. I can see sending a face pic but a picture of a penis? I usually draw a face on my penis with a Sharpie, then send a picture of that. That way, whichever one she responds to - penis or face - I've got it covered. Most likely she was just pulling your leg to get the free transportation from you. Maybe tell her there's a picture of your leg on your FB if she friends you.
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