sal Posted March 14, 2004 Share Posted March 14, 2004 Me and my b/f have been goin out for about three months-ish, and i guess its kinda dying for me... we hang out a lot at university (prolly too much), and the more we do it, the more i feel like we're just friends. We hang out to the point where i'm almost sick of being with him. He seems to like it a lot, but for me its getting worse every week. I'm thinkin of breakin up with him, but i keep bouncing around. I think about a really nice date we went on, and i wanna be with him... Then i think about being with him at school, helpin him with chemistry or researchin for a lab, and i wanna break it off... So whats the solution? Should I quit hangin around him at school and go with my other friends? or this a sign that this relationship has run its course? Link to post Share on other sites
supermom Posted March 14, 2004 Share Posted March 14, 2004 I think if you start hanging out with your friends more, maybe you'll start to "miss him". Seeing someone day in and day out can wear on a relationship. I am the type that doesn't like it when my H is "too clingy". Hopefully yours isn't like that. good luck Link to post Share on other sites
dreamyluv7 Posted March 14, 2004 Share Posted March 14, 2004 It sounds that you are scared of commitment and are not willing to put in the effort to make this relationship. If you don't like being with him so much and the thought of being at school with you makes you may want to break if off. Then, by all means, the right thing to do would to break it off with NOW. The longer you are with him and are the feeling this way the more you will hurt when you break it up later.. Link to post Share on other sites
Miss_Prolixity Posted March 14, 2004 Share Posted March 14, 2004 I agree with supermom. When we're in the first stages of a relationship, we tend to spend a lot of our free time with each other. But then it can start to feel like we're being suffocated. Perhaps you should find other interests to pursue other than your b/f. Maybe hang out with your friends more, start a new hobby, read, etc. Just give yourself some time to enjoy without him. Also it is extremely healthy to pursue other interests when you're in a relationship. In my opinion, I wouldn't take any extreme measures (breaking-up) just yet. Make some minor changes (pursue other interests) and see if that relieves some of the pressure of feeling "tied down." If not, then at least you know you tried. But being with a person constantly, day in and day out would tend to get on anyones nerves. Link to post Share on other sites
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